Does He Truly Love Me And Want To Be With Me Forever?
Ok, So I met this guy online and met him about a week later and we hit it off like magic. We get along well, never fight and never argue and things have been going great. In the past, he has been through a few bad relationships where girls would say they love him and in reality they dont, I have gone through the same thing. He tells me all the time that he loves me and is in love with me and wants to be with me forever because Im the best thing that ever happened to him and he couldnt be happier. I feel the same way, however, there are some downfalls that really make me question how into this relationship he really is. I have friends on different chat networks that I used to talk to on a daily basis, I mean afterall they are my friends! Recently, he has made me sign up for facebook so he can show me off to his friends, I agreed and downloaded facebook. Now, every time I am at his house he is constantly hounding me and asking who I am talking to and half of the time its no one because I am doing college classes. But, he is constantly texting on his phone, talking on different chatting networks with his friends and yes, some are girls that he talks to. I dont think this is very fair and I bought it up to him and he got a little upset so I just let it go.I live 2 hours from his house and we both agreed that we would go 50/50 with travel and so far I have done all of the traveling to his house and everytime he tells me hes coming to my house something always comes up to where he cant come and I always end up going to him, I dont have a problem with it, but its annoying to me. He also talks about his ex gfs alot, how the sex was and what their relationship was like. I have no interest in hearing this but if I bring it up he gets mad if I tell him to stop. I am a virgin, waiting until Im married and hes always getting on my case some about it. He respects it, but annoys me with it sometimes by bringing up what his ex used to do even though he hates her. Lately I have been telling him that I love him, and I do. But everytime I tell him I love him its like hes not reassured enough. Im not really sure what to do at this point. I really do love the guy, I have given up alot to make this relationship work. Is he truly in love with me? He treats me like a princess but sometimes I wonder if hes fully into this relationship or is friends, playing x box and texting on his phone the whole time Im with him, what he really wants.
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i think that maybe this relationship was a little rushed. although im not so sure since you didn’t mention exactly how long you guys got into this relationship after talking over the computer… but anyways, if you did rush into it, that’s probably why. cause in all honesty i do the same thing sometimes lol. its all fun & spontaneous at first but it turns out to be totally the opposite- so i understand. but to me, he sounds like that kind of guy who would probably say "i love you" and maybe means it, but uses it more as a way of keeping you around longer, you know. But you need to (in some nice way) confront him. something like… "Listen babe, i relationships are about honesty right?" (wait for response) then say "Well i’m going to be 100% honest with you about how i feel towards this relationship, and please don’t get mad because it’s coming from the heart, and you mean alot to me, so the last thing i want to do is upset you. but if we want this relationship to work, i need you to listen and understand, and then you can have your turn to share your feelings and i’ll listen, and we’ll compromise… and work our way from there." something like that
lol you guys need to be able to talk things out and be completely honest with each other, or else this isn’t gonna work im sorry to say. cause a person can only take so much-
so lets save all that drama lol. i hope i’ve helped in some way! 
best of luck! <3
& talking things out sooner can prevent you from spazzing out later on & possibly saying things you don’t mean
get to know him in person alot more first
i saw something about online and xbox.
bahhaa
He is nowhere near interested in forever with you.
Don’t get so attached. Back off a bit. He might not love you forever and forever, and is trying to guilt you or pressure into doing something you don’t want to do. Stay with your virtues!
Sounds like he is hurting you emotionally if were you I would DUMP him he sounds like he is not worth it. You are putting your all and he got used to it and is taking advantage of the situation.
Yeah, he doesn’t care for you.
He is acting posessive. You need to lay some boundries down, if he loves you he’ll respect that. Say nicely, you feel there are a few imbalances here and state your case. Tell him you don’t want to fight but to please understand that those things are bothering you. If he acts annoyed then you should take a step back, dont come visit him until he comes to see you. Don’t you’re doing this, just do it. Posessive men can improve, or they become dangerous. But if its not getting better have the confidence to find someone else before you get in over your head, there are plenty of guys who will treat you like a princess without treating you like a possession.
i think that because yall met on the internet he thinks that when your online your doing the same thing you were doing when you were talkin to him… the internet is yall meeting tool, yallmet on her and it now has created jealousy with him…..he probably does care but you shouldnt put up with be, since yall agreed to drive 50 50 he should hold up his end or your showing him that youll do whatever he wants and he has the upper hand ( yall should be equal). and syou drive all that way and he doesnt pay attention to you, i wouldnt put up with that i think that you should just go somewhere adn get away from him when he does that and when you coem back tell him he needs to pay attention to you… plus if he drives to your house then he cant play x box lol… he probably cares but he needs to show you commitment by driving to your house
You’re becoming too attached. Back off a bit. How about finding someone closer to home? Being with someone who is 2 hours away is hard.
I had a long-distance relationship like this. We met online…but it turned out we had a class together in high school and just didn’t talk then.
Anyways, we promised to do the whole 50/50 drive thing too. He literally visited me one time in our ten month relationship. I came to his place all the time.
He talked about his exes too…I hated that. I won’t have sex until marriage either. And he always got on my case about it too.
In the end, I broke up with him. He should have been more respectful of my choices. He also should have been more trusting.
I think you should break it off. This guy sounds exactly like my ex. With that being said, he won’t change even if he knows you’re unhappy or if you guys talk it out.
However, ultimately it’s up to you. Good luck!
if hes like that? then i would be confronting him about some of the stuff that he does, im sorry if i sound mean but he sounds a bit turdish..like how he gets to text all of his friends without you nagging him about who hes talkin to, and rule NUMBER 1of relationships.. (im no expert) but NEVER talk about your ex’s! sometimes its just good to forget the past..SOMETIMES.. O.O i dont know if this helps at all..i hope it does or at least gives you an idea? not sure
im 57 ,but i will tell you what my mom used to tell me,if a guy get jealouse and you havent done anything tomake him that way then he is probably the one who is sneaking around,he sounds immature,talking of his ex gf with you,he has a lot of baggage he is bringing into the relationship,tell him to get over his past,thats why its called past.but really long distance relationships are hard to do,id find me one closer to me or one who is not going to make you do all the traveling.i personally think the man should be the man and do all the traveling but that me.find someone closer,you were looking when you found him and you can find another.good luck
Do you realize that when you spend time in a relationship tallying up negative traits in someone, you’re basically building a case against being happy in the relationship? It’s a really bad habbit that a -lot- of people do. People all come from different places, and you can bet that a great many of the things you consider bad behavior on his behalf aren’t even things he thinks about when he’s doing it… furthermore, I’m sure he has a list of similar things about you. You guys aren’t being fair to each other.
Now this isn’t to say grit and bare the things you don’t like, but if you -ever- give in on issue, and just let it go cause you don’t want to fight… then you have -nothing- to complain about. Life is about communication, and compromise… compromise without communication is sacrifice, and no relation is good through sacrifice. We -always- resent when we sacrifice, and most people aren’t adult enough to realize that the sacrifice is no body’s faults but our own.
So Address the issues with him, and if you love him and he loves you then this thing needs to happen without the precept of a breakup. You sit him down and say. 1. You’re gonna stop being so jealous or I’ll skip a week spending time with you. If you are going freak out about who I’m talking to on line, I’ll talk to you less. Tell him you love him, but you deserve to be trusted just like he deserves to be trusted. AND when he presents you with what he wants from you and the consequences of what your lack of cooperation is, take him at his word, hear what he has to say… and work on it.
Does he love you? Shouldn’t that be something -you- know the answer to? I think you do…
A lot of young couples don” understand the significance of proper communication. Just a little clueless about what that means.
Ah ah, I don’t like this. Just because a guy treat you like a princess does not mean he love you. He wants to put you on HOLD. The other thing if he tell you he is coming to your house and does not show up, why do you go to his house? Do you think there is someone over there? be honest. Let him come to you. He bringing his ex to you to see if you get jealous and he can get what he wants. I don’t see much in this relationship. When he mention his ex, tell him you are not interest in his ex. What I would do in this case is back off as much as you can do. He seem too immature, about your virginity that an issue that concern you. He should respect the way you think. Now it seem to me that you have to have four eyes here. As is had been said before don’t get to attach to him there are something fishy here and I hope I’m wrong. Don’t walk on egg shell, and show him that you are a strong girl and can have whatever you want. If he want to leave there you have an answer. God bless you sweaty, may God bless and pray for wisdom like King Salomon and maybe all the question will be answer in one shot.