Did i make the right decision for taking him back?
Okay well i’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost 8 months now, we lost our virginity to eachother and i REALLY love him like you have no idea how much i do. And he REALLY loves me. But recently, i moved 3 hours away from him cause of family issues and now i barely see him so i’m scared he might cheat on me but before i moved he gave me a ring and the ring meant i would always love him and never cheat on him, i never take off that ring and he said he will never ever cheat on me. I believed him. But then, ever since i moved, we kept arguing (jealousy problems, me and him are really jealous people), and he never really tells me what’s going on anymore so i always find out things from his friends or even people I DON’T KNOW! Which is aggravating. Then i found out a rumor that he madeout with this girl at the mall? I told him that rumor and said he never even went to the malll with her and he swore on his life, so i believed him. Then i month later i kept hearing people saying what he told you was a lie so i asked again and he said he DID went to the mall with her and his friends but never did anything and he SWORE on his life… i believed him again. Then i broke up with him cause i found out he lied to me alot of times but he begged me for one more chance so i gave him the chance. But a few days later he lied to me and said he did madeout with her which made me want to kill myself. He hurt me so much, especially that i had to wait that long to find out the truth which was 3 months later after that happened. So i broke up with him then he tried to kill himself cause he said it was on accident and he hated himself for doing that and ect. So i took him back… but i don’t know if that was the right thing to do… was it? Please give me your opinion. I really don’t wanna stay with the wrong guy.
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Let him go!!
I’m going to explain why I say this.
He continuously LIES to you.
Do you really think you deserve this from him?
And plz don’t stay with him cuz of the ring or he SAYS he will kill himself. ( I had a guy once tell me that and he was just saying that to scare me back to him, its a scam)
Why go through the stress of being with someone who is not keeping his promise?
And plz dont believe the "I love you, she is not impotant to me". If she was not all that important then why did he break an IMPORTANT vow to you?
I understand he’s your first, but you gotta move on. It will hurt to let him go, but it will hurt more to hold on to him. Think about it.
I wish you the ultimate best!!!!
Let me know what happens!!!
dude let him go.trust me youll look back and be like what was i thinking!?!?!?youll find someone whos worthy of you,not cheat, and respect you.and this will sound mean but i totally dont mean it..i can tell your young..just by the fact that you took this cheating guy back..youll find someone better.trust me kid
giving second chance isnt bad after all but then you have to know if he really deserves that, if he SWORE for a thing then he probably have to mean that, you know several lie is not just an excuse but a habit!!! if he knows that he can easily say sorry and its not true then you believe him, he will just repeat it again and again without you realizing that your being STUPID and MARTIR for a not so good boyfriend!!!
if you have to ask yourself if its a mistake it obviously is. im sure all of the jealousy and worrying hes doing is from guilt he has because he is doing something or wants to do something. although one may love someone else sometimes the people arent made for one another and the trust between you too is already gone so theres no telling what will happen next. leave his ass
Let him go. If he thinks that just becuz u move that means ur not going to find out about all of this and that he would do that behind u and swore to his life, then let is life be gone in yours. He is obviosly a jerk and a liar and really stupid so…U’ll find someone someday that will actually never do somthing like that and if he did do somthing on accident withput thinking he would tell u..But just let this guy go… =)