Saving a Marriage
Saving a marriage, is it a man’s priority or a womans.
Why?
I had this argument with my friends and need some more insights – maybe my thinking is way off… please comment.
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It really HAS to be both people for it to truly work out in the end…. but it does seem like it more often falls on the woman. I’ve seen it happen more often that the women still love and the men become complacent, than the other way around. But any one-sided fix is ONLY temporary. Both people have to want it equally.
It has to be both. Otherwise, what’s the point?
it should be both the man and womans priority
umm, shouldnt it be both persons priority if they want to be in the marriage??
always the man he is usually the one with the other woman example(john&kate)
I would say the womans priority.
The man is probably sick of her sh*t and already hitting something else in the interim.
it is both. if both don’t want the marriage saved, nothing anyone can do is going to save it. it takes two.
has to be both partners that wants to save the marriage, because if one dont then whats the reason for staying in the marriage, your only gonna mentally screw yourself up in the end..
Both!
dont you think that would be up tp the couple in questions reason for the problems in the first place??
its like saying that you dont like this ingrediant on a hotdog… but i dont know if you even like a hotdog..
there ya go.. do I like hotdogs? yes.. now you know.
Both, if one trys to save it and the other isn’t interested then it will still fail.
wow that’s a stupid argument
of course its both of their priorities!
you cant have just one person trying in a relationship
thats when it malfunctions
First – why does the marriage need saving? Because you are both problematic to one another or because one of you did something to the other??. That would better direct who needs to work harder on saving the marriage. Two people are in a marriage so if you have just hit a snag both of you should work on the marriage.
It is both their priorities. They made a commitment to each other, they need to stick it through! Good times and bad times, that’s what marriage is all about.
Both people have to care. If one doesn’t care than its doomed to failure, however you should try to get the other one to start caring before filing divorce. That means talking about it simply and directly, not sending indirect signals and hoping they pick up on it.
it shouldn’t just be upto one of there priotity, If they both want it to work then they both need to try. Marriage is a sacred bond.
I think that to save a marriage both people need to want to save it, and then they both have to work at saving it. If only one person wants it to work the other will not put forth effort to keep it from dying. Marriage is hard work. It doesn’t come easy.
It’s everyone’s priority. If only one wants to ‘save’ their marriage, it means the other one doesn’t care any more.
Either way, the marriage is done. Both parties have to work hard to maintain a good relationship.
Man does not marry himself, nor does woman. They marry each other. So saving a marriage should be the priority of both man and woman. The two are in it together!
its both, but the one who is messing up in the marriage should make it their TOP priority
It has to be both 50-50.. it will not work any other way.. couples tend to forget that what it took to attract each other in the first place is what it takes to keep it together..
The both of you are partners in marriage, right? You are now "ONE"…it’s obvious it takes the both to make it their #1 priority to save the marriage TOGETHER. Marriage is never one sided, now does it involve one person…it involves two in EVERY aspect of a marriage.
well, it should be the priority of them both. Because they both should want to save their marriage, and not just one of them. But also it depends on what did happen during the marriage. For example : If the man did meet another women, he should be man enough to save his marriage and forget this other women. and if the women does make to much problems about her husband and follows him all the time with things that he has to do in her opinion, she should save her own marriage because she is the one who makes the problems.
Pardon my bad English
The key to save your marriage is communication in both parties. It takes two to make it work and you can not do it alone.
In addition to that it is even easier to communicate with people on the sly. Instant messaging and texting, emails have all made it easier to bond with people that you shouldn’t be bonding with.
.-= Ciara from Counseling Divorce´s last blog ..Pre-Marital Counseling =-.