Comments on: How Can I Help My Wife Fall Back In Love? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6495/how-can-i-help-my-wife-fall-back-in-love/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: john_paul32177 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6495/how-can-i-help-my-wife-fall-back-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-44165 john_paul32177 Sat, 13 Mar 2010 16:48:10 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6495/how-can-i-help-my-wife-fall-back-in-love-she-says-she-still-deeply-loves-me/#comment-44165 you worked hard to put her through school and you blame yourself for not responding to the nagging about cleaning house? no wonder things are as they are in our beloved united states. men, in order to be considered that. apparently have to be spineless blobs. you did nothing wrong. if i was in your situation i would be wondering where is her sense of gratitude. so a clean house meant more than you putting her through school? dont overdo it. if she wants to leave let her. now she is making money. let her pay for a change. im sure you will be able to find another that would appreciate your efforts without the need of being overpampered also. you worked hard to put her through school and you blame yourself for not responding to the nagging about cleaning house? no wonder things are as they are in our beloved united states. men, in order to be considered that. apparently have to be spineless blobs.

you did nothing wrong. if i was in your situation i would be wondering where is her sense of gratitude. so a clean house meant more than you putting her through school? dont overdo it. if she wants to leave let her. now she is making money. let her pay for a change. im sure you will be able to find another that would appreciate your efforts without the need of being overpampered also.

]]> By: Ricky http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6495/how-can-i-help-my-wife-fall-back-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-44166 Ricky Sat, 13 Mar 2010 16:48:10 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6495/how-can-i-help-my-wife-fall-back-in-love-she-says-she-still-deeply-loves-me/#comment-44166 "how can i help my wife fall back in love? she still deeply loves me?" my friend, the question solves itself. "how can i help my wife fall back in love? she still deeply loves me?"

my friend, the question solves itself.

]]> By: ah-ight http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6495/how-can-i-help-my-wife-fall-back-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-44167 ah-ight Sat, 13 Mar 2010 16:48:10 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6495/how-can-i-help-my-wife-fall-back-in-love-she-says-she-still-deeply-loves-me/#comment-44167 whoa! - it's too early for me to read all of that. i seriously tried, but i went cross-eyed a few times. so i skipped to the end...you asked if you're trying too hard, and with all that text, i would say yes. a bit of over-thinking on your behalf, is what it looks like. if you want her to be in love with you again then you're going to have to double up on what it was you did that made her fall in love with you in the first place...and then you'll need to maintain whatever that is that you did to get her, to keep her. good luck. whoa! – it’s too early for me to read all of that. i seriously tried, but i went cross-eyed a few times. so i skipped to the end…you asked if you’re trying too hard, and with all that text, i would say yes. a bit of over-thinking on your behalf, is what it looks like.

if you want her to be in love with you again then you’re going to have to double up on what it was you did that made her fall in love with you in the first place…and then you’ll need to maintain whatever that is that you did to get her, to keep her.

good luck.

]]> By: Wisen Smart http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6495/how-can-i-help-my-wife-fall-back-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-44168 Wisen Smart Sat, 13 Mar 2010 16:48:10 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6495/how-can-i-help-my-wife-fall-back-in-love-she-says-she-still-deeply-loves-me/#comment-44168 You need to work on yourself, not her. Focus on making changes in you, physical and emotional changes. Us women are a bit weird when it comes to getting a lot of attention, sometimes it draws us further apart. Make her want to want you. Let her "doubt" a bit. When a person feels too secured, the flame lowers, but when they can sense any type of "threat" to the relationship, then that flame starts burning again. These are the things that got me back to falling in love with my husband again. I can see myself in your situation because I was there, married at 18 and it started happening after 14 years of marriage: 1- Start working out and fall in love with yourself- remember that people see you as you see yourself 2- Get yourself new modern outfits and change your hairstyle 3- Say you love her, only when making love to her 4- At the Christmas party keep telling her how beautiful she looks 5- Buy her a sexy lingerie for Christmas 6- Even if it is hard, you can practice in front of the mirror, say these words. "You, know, if I ever decide to leave you, you will always be the most beautiful and sexy woman for me". Try to leave the room immediately and let her simmer in those juices. Good luck You need to work on yourself, not her. Focus on making changes in you, physical and emotional changes. Us women are a bit weird when it comes to getting a lot of attention, sometimes it draws us further apart. Make her want to want you. Let her "doubt" a bit. When a person feels too secured, the flame lowers, but when they can sense any type of "threat" to the relationship, then that flame starts burning again.

These are the things that got me back to falling in love with my husband again. I can see myself in your situation because I was there, married at 18 and it started happening after 14 years of marriage:

1- Start working out and fall in love with yourself- remember that people see you as you see yourself
2- Get yourself new modern outfits and change your hairstyle
3- Say you love her, only when making love to her
4- At the Christmas party keep telling her how beautiful she looks
5- Buy her a sexy lingerie for Christmas
6- Even if it is hard, you can practice in front of the mirror, say these words. "You, know, if I ever decide to leave you, you will always be the most beautiful and sexy woman for me". Try to leave the room immediately and let her simmer in those juices.

Good luck

]]> By: Happy-2 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6495/how-can-i-help-my-wife-fall-back-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-44169 Happy-2 Sat, 13 Mar 2010 16:48:10 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6495/how-can-i-help-my-wife-fall-back-in-love-she-says-she-still-deeply-loves-me/#comment-44169 You destroyed her in-love feelings over the course of 16 years of marriage. You only got that letter 2 or 3 weeks ago, so that's probably all the time you've yet spent trying to make things better. What took 16 years to tear down is going to take months, if not a year or two, to build back up again. She has no way of knowing yet whether or not these changes she's now seeing in you are permanent, or if you're only doing them temporarily because the separation thing scared you. Give her time, and keep working on yourself. You destroyed her in-love feelings over the course of 16 years of marriage. You only got that letter 2 or 3 weeks ago, so that’s probably all the time you’ve yet spent trying to make things better. What took 16 years to tear down is going to take months, if not a year or two, to build back up again. She has no way of knowing yet whether or not these changes she’s now seeing in you are permanent, or if you’re only doing them temporarily because the separation thing scared you. Give her time, and keep working on yourself.

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