How do I get my girlfriend back?
I broke up with my gf because i was getting a lot of crap from other people and even some of my friends about dating her. They said she was not my type and that she is obsessed with me. my day was really bad and i kind of just broke up with her. i did it very nicely and told her that i feel like i don’t need a gf and that i need a friend . her and i are still really close friends but i told her how i wanted to get back together and she still said that she likes me. But she doesn’t want to get hurt again and that people will give us crap if we do go out again. i need to do something to get her to go out with me again… i never told her that i really loved her until i asked her back out. what do i do to get her trust back!? please help i love this girl and i cant let her go!
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Never again let someone else dictate what you desire from your own relationships. To put this bluntly, this is none of their business in the first place. If you were willing to be swayed by those less important to you than the one you claim to care for, that really leaves a bad scar in her heart. Good luck at trying to repair this.
I wouldn’t want to be hurt again either. If it fails again, don’t expect her to talk to you at all.
She is going to have to come back on her own. You have to change first. Never take a friends advice if it makes someone else hurt. No matter what it is.
Let her go. It’s over.
Of course, you ought to select yourself
well first of all you should never really listen to your friends. 1st mistake. 2nd you broke up with her. wow. She needs an apology.
If you really like this girl, you should be as honest as possible. Poor thing she doesn’t want to get hurt again, and if your friends are going to ruin this for you and you are going to let that happen, then don’t even bother wanting her back because it isn’t going to work.
first you cant be ruled by what other people say.. if you love the girl then what other people say shouldnt matter.. trust takes time once youve lost it.. just ask her out and tell her your willing to earn that trust back with time.. and if she really loves you she would. .
Give her some time to think about it. What you did was pretty low, if you really cared about her you wouldn’t be so easily influenced by your friends. It’s understandable that she doesn’t believe that you can stand up to them. If it’s meant to be, it will happen. But in the meantime you shouldn’t try to pressure her or she’s not going to even want to be friends anymore.
well…
#1 it shouldn’t have mattered what your friends said. She’s your gf not theirs.
#2 You should do something spontaneous for her. Get her flowers or call her beautiful to her face more than once a day. You could also write her a love letter or a song. A good one would be to say you’re truly sorry for breaking up with her and that if she gives you another chance that you promise she won’t regret it.