I Am Bi Sexual, And I Feel As If People Judge Me
I hope anyone can give me some advice on this…
I have done things with a girl ( my best friend), and it was hot and I liked it a lot better than with guy’s. I’m going to a new school this monday, and I don’t want people to know right away. If people ask I will tell them I am, but I want people to accept me for the way I am.
I’m 15, almost 16 and my ex bf ( we just broke up because I moved along ways from him), didn’t mind me being bi sexual. He has said sometimes that he wished I wasn’t bi. He said that because I prefer girls over guy’s, sexually and emotionally.
Any advise on how to fit in with this?
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That’s a rather personal question, if you aren’t ready to tell strangers what your sexual preference is, then DO NOT BE INTIMIDATED BY THEM, politely and respectfully tell them that that is none of their business. And, in the case of your young age, it really isn’t any of their business.
If you see someone you like, and they like you, you both will know.
Give yourself a "fresh, new start", some things should be left to yourself, and a little mystery to someone new is always exciting. Use this to your advantage.
Take your time, you are SOOOO young, enjoy this time in your life, it passes SOOO quickly. "Life in the moment", breath in every detail, every smell, every sound, every sight.
Good luck at your new school, you have been given a new chance to be whom ever you want to be, make the right choice for YOU!
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ew you like both genders thats a sin thats a one way ticket to the depth’s of HELL
Your young it’s a phase you will get over it don’t worry about it
Hello.
Don’t be ashamed in anyway.
When going to this new school if people can’t accept you the way you are then there not worth being friend’s with.
Good people will accept you the way you are know matter what.
Don’t worry about it.
xD
Just don’t show that you’re bi. You need to act like regular girls.
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Just be yourself
just be yourself. not everyone excepts us for being the way we are. It’s just because they don’t understand. good luck and have fun! i’m sure you’ll make many new friends.
you just be yourself, it’s them who need to get over it. if they don’t accept you they’re not worth the bother.
How ’bout you stop liking girls and start liking the ones you’re supposed to like?
That’s how you can fix it.
if your bi your bi. you have to be honest with people or else they’ll never accept you. show them wat your really like, becuz then they won’t care who you like.
You are very young. One of the things you learn as you get older and are among many different types of people, especially in the work world, is that you do not have to be an open book about your sex life. NO ONE is owed an explanation or even an answer about your interests. Mature adults don’t make a practice of discussing their sex life with strangers or mere acquaintances. It’s not wise, nor is it necessary.
A mature, confident guy is not going to have a problem with your interests. Relationships are based on agreements – and someone you are having a relationship with is the only one you owe any explanation to.
idk but im in a class full of lesbians, gays, and bi’s at my school n nobody has a problem with them because all they talk about is that kind of stuff.. the girls will b talkin bout there girlfriends and even tho im not bi or lez, i think its actually entertaining to listen to them cuz there funny.. nobody judges them because they are themselves and just let ppl know
ignore them, do your own thing. please yourself not them
Most people don’t get it. They think u are lesbian but u r not! Just try to ignore them but if u feel bulled go to a counsalar.
First of all, ignore the negative comments you got. Those ppl are stupid, ignorant and not worth your reading time. Being bi is natural. Most ppl have an attraction to ppl of their own gender, the only difference is that you act on your feelings while others are too scared.
Next, you don`t need to tell ppl anything you aren`t comfortable telling them. It`s none of their business, and those who judge you are not good enough to know you anyway. Good luck at your new school!
hun just be yourself,
and i know thats extremely cheesy and may sound so stupid and not helpful.
but trust me I have a heeap of bi friends its like theres something in the water here
but its better too be honest about who you are. you never know who you will end up meeting.
maybe a cute girl
trust me its better too make friends who accept you and you can share everything with.
not be friends with people who don’t know you for who you really are.
i mean who would you tell about that hot girl across the street
hope you do exceptionally well at your new school
just remember too be you because lies are like stains
you can go around wearing it but it will get old and you won’t like it much anymore
you’ll want too wash it off and it will be harder the longer you leave it
xx’s
This is not something you should "get over" as far as the worry of people judging you. You need to get over these feelings and acting this way. The Bible teaches we are to only be sexual with members of the opposite sex, and while married. Personally i think you’re too young to be sexually active, Bi or not. If you pray about it, seek help from a church, you can be changed and saved. If you continue down this road, you will go to Hell once you die, I’m sorry to say. This is not me being judgmental, just speaking the truth.
Well i would say make some friends first and once you feel comfortable with them, tell them. And if people ask you just say yeah and dont act too shy about it, make it look like your proud of it and you dont care what anybody thinks, but i doubt people are going to be asking you that kind of stuff..
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but forget about it.
Don’t change the way you are for anyone. it’s not worth it.
Awww hun, People can be cruel. But the cruel people are the ones who are most close minded and uneducated, Ignore them, They aren’t worth your time. <3
I think you should just act the way you are. You are yourself and if people dont accept the way you are… then they are just stupid. My sister is bi and so I know how you feel.. its a terrible feeling to be around people who judje bu’s without even thinking. It;s terrible and I cant get over it. She just learned to accept herself and did what feels right to her. As with the school, I think you should just be the way you were. But be carefull, not everybody thinks bi is okay.
And a thing to know with the new school, don’t flirt with girls until you know for sure that they are bi. If you do, your friends that are girls with feel uncomfortable around you if you flirt wwith them. Only if you absolutley know they are also bi. And it will get people not to notice right away if you dont flirt. Good luck in your new school! Hope this helps!