How does a man reagin your trust back?
I am a mother of 3 and have a child with my most recent X-fiance. He was untrustworthy in our relationship and it is VERY hard to believe anything he says.
He has been trying to get back with me and telling me he has been making changes, but i haven’t see no action behind his words. I told him he needs to prove himself first and HE says…"well, how can i prove anything if your not spending time with me"
I told him i don’t need to hang out with him because that will not show changes, that is not proving anything…where is the ACTUAL proof that he can be faithful??
How could i ever trust him since i have lost that trust in him? How can i trust what he is saying is real? What can be SIGNS that i would know he is sincere and is a changed man??
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Well, you have to be willing to allow him to regain trust. It will all depend on you and your needs. But to answer your question…
He must be an open book to you. This could mean showing you all email and other private stuff so you can see for yourselff that he is true.
He must not hide anything from you. There will come a point that you will not need to see all these things but he must be willing to allow you to heal in your time and not his.
tell him to kick rocks. if he really did want to be with you he wouldn’t have done you wrong. and for you to take him back lets him realize what he can ge away with. i saw show urself some dignity and do better than this jerk. ya he may be the father of ur child but what kind of relationship would u be showing your child if you continue with the on going problem. trust is a major issue in a relationship and once it’s broken i dont see how you can ever regain it back.