How To Recover From a Broken Heart?
Is it possible to recover from a broken heart it and start feeling good again?
This guy I was engaged with for some time really rocked my world. We had a lot in common and we did really fit perfectly. However, when our engagement was a couple of months old, he slowly started to act different than he used to do. The reason for this was that he had mpd – multiple personality disorder.
He only wants to be my friend because he says I am the first person he is ever been so close with. I know more about him and his past than anyone he’s ever known. He doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me (he never wanted to be in a relationship with anyone before me and he says I am the first he’s ever fallen for).
It’s not so much that he wants to do this but more so because he even offered me. I told him no.. I feel so hurt that he would even think of me as such…
So we are friends. At first I was fine with that, until he offered to marry me to come to his country (he is Australian and I am in the US).
The reason why he’s told me that is because I said i was thinking of moving there because it’s a really nice country.
But he only offered because he said he would marry anyone who wanted to come to this country kind of like a mail order bride. But he said that he would not be emotionally involved or honor any vows.
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Your life will not get better in the future
if you can’t accept your past, and to
let go of the bad things.
Someone who wants you to go to a foreign country.
You must learn there is no "I" in the word love.
He is saying
"Why buy the milk cow. when he can get the milk for "free."
to just do the cooking and the laundry and to be
"handy when he thinks it’s dandy." <}:-{(
The only cure is to find someone else, (someone better) so you can’t even remember his name. The secret is do well. "good luck"
It’s possible that it may be the only way he knows how to express his love. Many people are damaged in this way, they don’t know how to love another (or how to accept love). These are issues that probably originated way back in time (with momma).
The healthiest way to get over a relationship is also the hardest way. Time. It takes time for the pain to fade away. The best thing you can do is stay busy. Go to the mall, hang out with friends, watch your favorite show, study something you have always wanted to know more about (maybe a second language). Try not to dwell on the relationship. If you can keep your mind off the relationship past, everything else will follow! There are other things ahead, and one can only hope they will be better!
run from this man like the plague!.
Time will help heal your heart and falling in love with someone else, too can help heal your broken heart.
I’m sorry and i hope things get better for you!