Breaking up? Break? How do i fix this?
ok so my boyfriend and i semi brokeup, i want to go on a break but he says he doesnt know,
we talk about everything to eachother, we are literaly best friends but this year was his first year in college and its been really hard for him, i know hes never cheated and he never would , (his mom and dad cheated on eachother and he hates the entire concept)
so thats not an issue, but hes having a really hard time at school with all his new friends (who are assholes) and trying to balance school, work, his friends, and me.
i told him i understand and i think we need a break to settle everything and we both still love eachother so i think it will work out.
is there anything i can do to really show him that i care about him, dont want to loose him, but understand how important and hard all of this is to him?
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first of all I think you need to admit that you indeed want the break. when someone goes away to school and needs to adjust, they don’t need the most important person in their life (other than parents) to step back from them. I never understand that.
if you cared then let him know that you will be there for him no matter what and if he falls short you will understand that this is a very intense change that he’s going through and you won’t hold it against him.
that’s if you want him to really see that you love him and that you will stand by him.