How do I get my ex boyfriend back?
This explains our whole situation:
I need advice and BIG help please.
My boyfriend broke up with me two days ago. For two weeks I knew something was wrong. The first week, every time I looked in his eyes I saw that he had love for me. But his actions were changing. He didn’t feel as close to me. The second week I wasn’t able to see him because we didn’t have school that whole week. And I was scared because I knew I wouldn’t talk nor see him.
But when he broke up with me, he said loved and that I was perfect. But he doesn’t know whats going on with himself. I even said I could help him and were in a relationship and we get through this. We’ve never had a fight before and I think this situation could be handled. I’m trying to refrain from talking to him, but I can’t help it. I sent him a text, explaining the situation and how I don’t think he should give us up. He didn’t reply and I didn’t persist on bugging him.
He told me that he’s messed up in the head right now and doesn’t know what to do. We’ve only been together four months. And all his relationships lasted at least a month or less but he wasn’t on fault. They broke up with him and I’ve had one other relationship that lasted four years. He’s been my friend for awhile. We weren’t close like best friends, but we were friends. And now being with him was the happiest day of my life. There wasn’t a second I was sad with him and he was the same. He told me that I’m the girl he’s been waiting for and how he’s mad that he didn’t see me sooner. That he’s happy with me and he wants us to last because he loves me. And I wanted the same! I was going to do whatever I could to keep that. Four months sounds short, but it’s longer than you think. I fell for that boy fast. . and I’m sure it’s meant for us to be together. I never had this connection with anyone else before. But ever since he joined the play(He’s usually a techi), but he finally got casted. This is our senior year and I was proud of him. But unfortunately he didn’t have time for me and he was drifting. I have a feeling he’s distracted with school and the play, college, etc. Since our drama teacher takes lives away, until the play is over. Hah.
My friend told me he told her, that he was losing feeling and that he didn’t know what to do. We use to hang out a lot but when the play started I hardly ever saw him. So that changed and I think that’s why it feels different for him.
But how can I get him back?
We had this connection and the break up was out of no where. I’m 18 and I know what I’m talking about for once in my life, I want no one but him and I’m willing to make it work.
Do you think this could be temporary? I want to show him that I want to be with him and that I love him. I don’t want to pretend, I want him to see. But I want to refrain from texting him a lot. . .but show that I can be his friend too. . . Guys! If you broke up with your girl because you’re stressed and you don’t think you have time for her? But she wanted you back and was willing to make it work? What would go through your mind? Do you think if he has these strong feelings for me, that he’ll want me too? I don’t doubt it and I’m not in denial either.
Sorry for making it long! But I need serious help, it sucks.
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I’m so sorry you are going through this. I know exactly what you are feeling and it does suck! I’ve been there myself and I found out that surprisingly, it’s actually very easy to get your ex boyfriend to WANT YOU back after a breakup. You don’t have to beg, you don’t have to plead. The little-known "trick" all comes down to male psychology – the trick is to push his "emotional hot buttons". Triggers that are specific to only men. He’ll literally come crawling back like a little puppy dog, begging for another chance with you if you know how to push his emotional hot buttons!
The entire reason you want your ex boyfriend back so badly is because he rejected you. It’s human nature to want what we cannot have. Especially if we had that something and it was suddenly taken away from us.
The solution is to completely reverse the rejection you’re feeling right now. There are specific things you could do and say to make him feel like he was the one being rejected.
All men all behave in a very similar and predictable manner. Trying to reason, use logic and argue with your ex boyfriend simply does not work. Even telling him how much you care about him will not work. It will only further push him away. It will only creep him out. He just doesn’t respond to that kind of reasoning on a deep emotional level. His DNA is hard coded to respond to something entirely different. That’s how men are!
This site helped me to get my ex boyfriend back. It’s full of articles and videos to help you. What I like best about it, it doesn’t cost any money like a bunch of scams out there. Check it out – http://www.gettingbackex.info.
I hope this helps you!!
peal him off the evin hotter chick
You can’t, know why, cause you will be heart breaked again and again and again, trust me when I say, you will have "No Chance" for him, ha ha ha ha, sorry, but be careful though, you don’t wanna be targeted for termination okay young girl, don’t worry you can trust me, I’m a very very good user, ha ha.
Offer him sex if he says no then hes feeling weird because he loves you as a freind and hes actually gay he says yes then thats all that was missing have fun
I’m sorry for your pain. There is really no way to get another person to change his emotions. "Living well is the best revenge." I realize you don’t want revenge, but living a great life without him can make him think twice about you. He might realize that you’re a fabulous person to be around and that you’re going to be fine with or without him. Keep in touch but in a casual friendly way, not needy at all, and he just might realize that he wants another shot with you. In the meantime, don’t close yourself off to any other options.
I’m twice your age and I’d been in quite a few relationships before I met my husband. So let me tell you from my experience… if he can’t maintain a long-term intimate relationship he could be a born player/philanderer. He may have had real feelings for you but he may be overly distracted by other girls/women. This is something that often does not change with time. Of course he’s very young, so it could also be just immaturity. It sounds like you are a lot more mature than he is at this point. I’m just saying, if it doesn’t work out in the end you may be better off because he might be the kind of guy who is always chasing other females anyway. You might meet "the one" and be glad you didn’t stay with this guy, charming as he may be. He can be very loveable but it’ll just be hell to have a relationship with him if he strays.
Give him a gift something about you too that makes him realize you really care its naturally to feel pain and ask him i can help you with this issues whatever it is am here for you and i always will be quit swimming on top of the lake and sink into it!!!!! that’s only way you are g in to get stuff done and dont cry theres alot of guys out there just do as i said and you will get him back quit doing that stupid txt are you dumb? talk to him face to face with no regrets and tell him how you feel or you will regret it! Another thing its TIME just ggiveit sum time and he will realize he fucked up and tthat’swhen you let him have it!!!!!!!!! Am a BEAST at this stuff and am a man so i been through that are you sure he ddidn’tcheated?