Have you ever done something terribly wrong and how do you regain your confidence and trust in people back?
You invited a man into your house and everything started to fall apart when your family found out. You cheated yourself, your family and your friends. They really put their trust in you but you abused it. Now that you’re wrong, your family still love you and pick you up instead of throwing you out of the house. Worse still, your siblings stop talking to you. You felt bad and you tried to do whatever means necessary to get your family back.
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I find that Time heals everything. It takes a while to the point where you think that the whole deal will never pass over, but I’ve gone through a situation like this before, and I can tell you, no one thinks on it now. I still fear that perhaps it runs through my family member’s minds, but we all know some dirty little secret about each other, but we love each other so it’s never spoken of again. Just try to continue with life that way it was before. Go out to a movie with your family, eat out, go a carnival, something where you don’t think about your situation.
that was an emo/slut story
they’ll get over it
A sincere heartfelt apology is the first step. The most important after that is to learn from the mistake and not repeat it…good luck, none of us are perfect…and the siblings will come around in time…
First, are you still with him?
If not, then just focus on re-establishing your life and connections with your family, all in time will be healed.
If you are still with him, you MUST ask yourself, is he worth it? Do we really have a happy future together? and other questions your family would be happy to help you muddle through.
Vee is right about the apology. That is the first step if our haven’t done so already. It is hard to do but it means a lot.
Are you aware you are talking about yourself in the 3rd person? Obviously you are trying to put distance between yourself and the situation. Okay, so you have messed up. Everybody has.
Only TIME can mend betrayed trust. Remember that the next time you are tempted to act unwisely. Give them time and be the best you that you can be. Some family members may never get over it. That is just the way people are. But most of them will get over it eventually, as long as you stay out of trouble. Good luck, dear girl. You just learned a hard lesson.
darling you have to give them time n distance…n stop beating yrself up…n don’t push a reunion…it’s too soon…remember to do something nice for yrself every day n i’ll be sending lots of positive healing thoughts your way.
If your family loves you, then they are willing to let you earn their trust again.
How do you earn it. Consistency in what you say you are going to do, when you are going to do it, the way you are going to do it. Consistency.
I don’t know how long it will take for them to believe that they can trust you again. But it is worth earning their trust back.
I don’t get the siblings stopped talking to you part. But honesty and consistency is where to start on that.
Oh, by the way, you didn’t mention the key ingredient…forgiving yourself. What you thought was going to be fun really turned to dust in your hands because of the consequences. You let yourself down more than letting them down. So, the first place you need to start is by forgiving yourself. You need to know that everyone lets themselves down at some point in their life. There’s only One person Who doesn’t and that’s our Creator. Outside of that, everyone will betray us and we will betray ourselves. But we can be forgiven and we can forgive.