Is it unreasonable to ask my ex & baby's father…?
My baby was hospitalized for a period of time. At the hospital they supply you with toys etc for your baby. My baby fell in love with a toy that they have stopped making 
Not for any other reason than they don’t make it anymore. I have looked everywhere. I was going to get one off Craigslist but it was out of state and I was warned by many that was dangerous. Well, I happened to find one brand new, still in the box, never opened 20 minutes from my ex’s house. He lives in a different state. I called him up and asked if he would do this favor and then have him ship it to me and I would reimburse him… He is being an ***. He said tell them you will pay extra for them to ship it. Well no one wants to ship it to me and with good reason. There is no guarantee I am going to get the product and she her money, even though I would send it. He could make this so easy and he is being a d!ck. I found one, the same EXACT one on Amazon for 0. I cannot afford that. He told me I need to buy her that one. I told her if I got child support I might be able to afford it – he does not pay child support – which is not the issue, I just want his help. Am I being unreasonable. He is supposed to call me back tonight when he gets home. What should I say? How should I approach this to get him to do this for me? MY daughter loved this toy and he just laughed that I would go through so much to get it. I know some may not agree but it’s only plus what I will owe her dad in shipping and gas! Please advice. I just want his help! Thanks!
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I have looked everywhere Ebay everything… I also posted this question in marriage and divorce. I got horrible answers there.. you need to go read what these guys posted.
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What! This guy is a total douche bag!
You are not being unreasonable in the least and that guy should be happy that you care so much about your child..Specially since he obviously doesn’t…
Do his parents live in that state are they involved with the baby or are any of his brothers or sisters invovled..is their anyone else you can ask because after this I wouldn’t even want him to help me..since he can obviously care less…
If I was him id rush out and buy it with my own money just to make my daughter happy..since he obviously does nothing else for her
Edit: also have you looked on ebay? What is the toy? Maybe I can help you look online..
I’m sorry he’s being a jerk. Try asking your parents or siblings or friends if they could loan you the money and you could work out a way to pay them back. Then go after your ex for child support. My mom went through the Kansas payment center for child support. I don’t know if they have something like that where you live, but its worth a try.
Good luck!! I hope you can get the toy for your baby.
He should go out of his way to try and help you any way he can to get the baby this toy. Tell him to be a father and take care of his child. Its a toy that the baby loves. Its not going to kill him to get it. Is his time that priceless that he cant take a little of it and do this one thing for the baby. He should also pay for the damn toy.
Have you tried Ebay? I have bought tons of items off of there. Always check for high feedback scores and make sure they are for good feedback and not full of bad feedback. Good luck finding the toy for the baby.
I agree he is being a jerk too…
Is it that much trouble to get your baby a toy they loved so much???
I don’t know what to do… What toy is it by the way? Maybe I can help you find it and get it to you…
I would do the same for my son as you are trying to do for your daughter. If I saw he loved a certain toy so much I would try everything to get it for him.
It is sad she has such a father who would not do that for her…
Sorry to hear you are in confusion. Let me try to explain nicely about what is going on. Your tormenting yourself. He is not wanting to care about you or the child or even about what you want for your child. And this hurts, deeply and will hurt for a long time. thre are support services to contact if he is not paying a court ordered amount. and i urge you to look up informaiton contacting them.
secondly, It will be very hard to do, But stop allowing people to torment you. the ex, strangers, landlords, bosses, etc.
i hope everything smooths out for you very soon.
good luck