How Do I Make My Ex Want Me Back?
I was wit my ex for 3 1/2 yrs.One day everything was perfect then the next it came crashing down.It seems like it wasn’t even coming.
I was asking her all week to go see a movie with me and she really wanted to go to the bar i didn’t understand why? why couldn’t we go see a movie instead that’s what i really wanted to do i have alcoholism problems in my family and it seemed like we were going there every weekend so i thought we could spend some quality time out together and see a movie.
We fought about it all day I didn’t understand what was so important at the bar, So i decided to do my own thing wit a friend and she did hers i went to a movie she went to the bar about 11:00 pm i received a text say in how i was unbelievable for being mad i didn’t think i was you were choosing a bar over me.
But at this point i just didn’t want to fight anymore it was our first big fight i mean we had little arguments that 2 Min’s later we were kissing and making up so i went to the bar to tell her i was sorry and lets go home when i got there she was wasted i pulled her up against the wall to tell her that and this old hag said i was going to beat the shit out of her i couldn’t believe that none of that was true i left the bar and went home and texted her and called her all Nite and no replays back i had someone call her house for me in the morning and her father replied by saying she hasn’t come home.
He thought that she spent the night wit me and about 15 Min’s later she called my mom telling her how much she loved me and then called me and told me she couldn’t do it anymore but not to tell my family and dont let anyone get involved that she loved me and just needed time well by then the tears was flowing i begged her not to do it and i didn’t understand why it was a fight.
She called me about four times that day wanting to talk and tell me not to listen to her best friend if she was telling me to move on.She asked me to come up and talk to her and i did she told me she was in love wit me and needed time and that she liked someone remind you the person she liked is about 35 yrs older then her and she is 22 i replied love and like is two different things at the end of the day i am the one that is going to matter She acted like she couldn’t be seen with me and watched every car that drove past like she was scared.
She hugged me and didn’t wanna leave go like she knew it was the last hug she was going to give me.Later on that Nite i went to the bar wit a couple friends i needed to get somethings off my mind and she was there with the person but kept lookin at me all Nite we all got into it and i left and the new person in her life said i needed to get over it she is wit me now i thought within 9 hrs you found someone else that’s bad but the next day she continued to call me and cry saying i was never going to speak to her again n how she loved me and didn’t want me to hate her.
She called me twice and then drove past my house which i caught her to see where i was for 2 months after the fact she continued to check up on me wit friends and stuff but we stopped talkin about a month after we broke up and now she seems to have so much anger with me but wants me to need her or want her.She gets angry if she thinks i am moving on threatens to beat the other person up constantly stares at me but has to run her mouth like she wants the person she is with to believe she is done with me and thats it.
She constantly has to remind herself and other people she is happy and does not regret it but is drunk all the time but went after the girl i was with new years eve and cried and then proceed to punch my window and tells her to get out of the car and fight her and when i said i am not the one who made this choice you are she started to cry and said it wasnt a mistake i dont understand i love her i am inlove with her i dont understand how she can tell ppl she is happy ignore me and cant tell me its really over to my face but can make me the center of her world when i am in the same room as her and her new person is sitting next to her she doesnt kiss that person or barely speak to that person just stares at me i dont get it how do i get her back?
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You may love this woman but she seems like trouble. She cheated on you with this guy she is with now. She is always drunk and you come from an alcoholic family–which is not a good mix. She wants to fight with the new woman you are with and then throws a tantrum in public. She goes places with the new man that is twice her age to make you jealous. She may like him but she is with him for a reason. She may be using him. But, he has some type of control over him.
It will be hard but you need to stay away from her and distance yourself to move on to better things. It will take a long time for her to get her life back together and you do not need to continue to get hurt while she is fixing her life or get addicted to alcoholic or get in trouble with the law over fights. Remember, when you love something……set it free….if it comes back to you……take it–it is yours. Good luck.
The real question should be, why would you want her back? Love is not enough. She feels guilt for dumping you like she did, but she doesn’t want to leave the new guy. She just wants the ego boost of you chasing her. Look, she is a drunk, and you stated you have drinking problems too. Cut the drama, get to AA and clean up your life. (That includes your love life too). It may also help if you get a restraining order and stop going to places you know she’s going to be.
Move on. There are too many future dates for you.
Oh, man. You know, I just got dumped about 14 hours ago. She was beautiful and much older and I was absolutely crazy about her. We had a fight on Friday and she dumped me overnight, I begged her until morning and she finally agreed to give me one last chance. For a couple of hours we were intimate and everything was lovely again. The next time we talked 12 hours later she said she’d thought about it a lot and the answer was a resolute no. Even if I gave her the world, she just didn’t have the feeling anymore.
This question though, made me feel a lot better! LOL!
You need to totally cut that girl off man. I don’t know why you haven’t done it already, it’s been a month. She let the 57-year-old guy humiliate you in your face, isn’t that enough?
Do NOT talk to her. Don’t call, don’t text, don’t write, don’t email, don’t pour your heart out to her friends, don’t poke her on Facebook. Don’t go to her bar or any of her hangouts. Don’t take her calls. Don’t answer her letters. Don’t write her poetry. Don’t dedicate any songs on the radio. Get it? You’re in bootcamp now.