How Can I Get My Ex-Husband Back?
I’m still very in love with him.
We were together over 20 yrs. After everything was said & done, I realized I did the wrong thing.
My heart is hurting. I miss him. I have asked him back. I hurt him real bad & now he says he doesn’t love me anymore.
I know he does. You don’t just stop loving someone after all those years of being in love.
What do I do?
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I wouldn’t do anything right now. You’ve told him how you feel. You have to give him some time. I’m sure he still loves you too. You both need to be sure that you are in love not that you just love each other and are used to being together. I wish you the best!
I agree with brokenheart. great advice.
Take a break, cry for him, and spend a lot of time journaling your feelings or talking with friends. I do believe that sometimes people just "fall out of love", but it doesn’t mean that you don’t need to have time to grieve your loss….
write him a letter….it means more if it is in black and white.. he cane also read it again and again
Give him some time to see what he really wants to do. Maybe he is undecided about things. Be sincere and apologize for what you have done to him, and try to be a better person towards him. But if he does not want to try, don’t make him. Move on with your life, time will heal your pain. I know.
How can you tell he still loves you?
Maybe he doesn’t. It is possible for people to stop loving each other. Especially if you hurt him bad like you said.
Why did you hurt him? Did you think that you found something better? Now he doesn’t want to be wondering, "Will it happen again?"
Why don’t you ask him if there is anything that you can do to start making it up to him? I wish my wife cared enough to ask the same Q. Maybe I would care about her today.