My Ex-Girlfriend Of 3 1/2 Years Won’t Let Me Talk To Her?
My ex-girlfriend of 3 1/2 years won’t let me talk to her…what should I do?
We got together the summer before senior year of high school. The last year or so has been 5 hour drive long distance relationship. We didn’t ever fight about being apart and we never let that get between us until 4 weeks ago.
You see, normally she would come visit me because she has a car and I pretty much don’t. I would go down and visit her sometimes. I even went so far as to move down there for a few months. Unfortunately, I couldn’t stay cause of finances. Like 2 months ago I went down there and she, being in college and having a job, didn’t really have time for me.
I wasn’t too upset with that cause I understood she was just trying to get her stuff done and I just came down on a bad weekend. So 4 weeks ago her room mates brother was going down and wanted to know if I wanted to go with him (he lives like a half hour away from me). I wanted to, but she had been talking about how much work she had to do this weekend and was stressing out over it.
So I didn’t go down. Well it was going to be a surprise originally, so she didn’t know about it. The weekend came out and I told her what I had done, but said that I was coming down the next weekend if she didn’t have anything to do. She blew up like a bunker buster.
I was really caught off guard and didn’t know what to say. I kept apologizing, but she didn’t seem to care. She said that I should have come see her and broke up with me. Anyway, so jump to present time. I tried giving her space or whatever and we started doing really, really well like three weeks into this mess. We were still saying I love you and talking like we always had.
But then out of no where she decides we’re talking too much and thinks we should stop. I got mad because it made me feel even worse than I already did. Now she won’t talk to me at all really and when she does she just tells me that I really messed up and I should have thought about what I said before I said it (I really wasn’t mean about it). I don;t know what to do.
I can’t go down there anytime soon and she won’t let me talk to her. I sent a long, sweet email, but got no reply. What should I do to get her to at least talk to me again?
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Get some flowers and deliver in person down on bended knees. Tell her something gooey and sweet and maybe she will get over it.
Just ignore her. You can expect her to be seeing other people and this will hurt you, so the least you know the better.
You think you want to know everything, but trust me you dont.
Candy and flowers will NOT help. At this point the only thing you can be guaranteed to do is DRIVE HER EVEN FURTHER.
Forget about her…….until she comes back to you. And she might just want to come back as friends ….do it.
Dont be me. Through the heartbreak, I forgot how much I appreciated her friendship and not just her body and mind. But 16 years later its too late and I have nothing but memories that make me sad to remember what i lost. Not just her physical love but her friendship as well…and it was all my fault.
So if you want a chance to be friends years from now…..leave her alone.