Getting Back With Ex-Husband?
I have been divorce for three years after three year we started talking again.
The reason for our divorce was I wanted to wait to have children he did not due to the age difference his 14 years older.
My ex- husband know has a child with one night stand. He want to get back together he tells me he is still in love with me.
I don’t know what to do please help…
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This is a personal decision you have to make on your own. No one knows your relationship with your ex-husband better than you do.
You said he wants to get back together with you but you didn’t say whether or not you wanted to?
You also said you don’t know what to do.
How long have you guys been "talking" since you reconnected? If it hasn’t been long, then be friends first. By friends, I mean lots and lots of communication. Don’t jump into being intimate or be in a relationship with him quickly yet.
Edit: if you find out that your hopes and dreams are different. then you know it’s not meant to be.
He had a child with a one night stand after you two broke up?? …Follow your heart?
sounds like a deadbeat. I wouldn’t go back with him. he betrayed you by having a kid after you broke up. How could you ever get over that?? I would tell him to screw off. You are better than that. And can find someone who would LOVE to have kids with you.
If you want to have children, and he’s willing to make that change of mind for you, and you’re still in love, go for it. Love is worth it.
Remember why you divorced…you are still the same two people remember. Someone that loves you doesn’t end the marriage because you’re not ready for parenthood.
nononononononononononononono and no
HELL NO! Always forward , Never backwards!
i can not relate at all. that would be my worse nightmare, on every level.
Well remember he is a x for a reason and now he already has another child he is responsible for and ask yourself do I after all I have been threw want to return to problems because let me tell you from my own experience when there are other children involved it can get nasty and you will forever have to deal with it .So I hope you make the best for yourself .