How Do You Get Your Ex Back?

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1. Ne says:

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   A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
   There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
   Here is a great website on how to get your ex back: http://www.exbackguides.com/
2. Heart of the Matter says:

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   There is a great book called "Stop Your Divorce" – it is an ebook you can buy online…it costs $80 though…you could tell them to buy that…or I could cut and paste some good, relevant stuff out of it if you wanted…there is a lot of really good stuff that is not talked about much…a lot of counter-intuitive stuff!

   "How To Stop Your Divorce Or
   Lover’s Rejection
   When You’re The Only One Who
   Wants To Stop It
   by Homer McDonald
   with Dean Jackson"

   here is a short bit:
   The More You Believe You Need Something —
   The Less You’re Going To Have It
   Pressuring and pursuing never works. It always pushes the other person away, because you’re communicating low self-esteem. When you’re thinking, “need to be loved,” that is creatinglow self-esteem. It’s hogwash that we need to be loved. We don’t need romantic love. I ask many people, “Before you were in love, what were you doing?” “Oh, I was enjoying friends and enjoying my freedom.” “Were you happy?” “Oh, yeah.” “And you weren’t romantically involved?” “No. I had friends, my job, my school, whatever.” In order to make it into secure happiness, you’ve got to start caring about facts. Now, you don’t have to make it into maturity. You do not have to make it into a secure happiness. But if you do, you have to achieve that by caring about facts. What’s true? What works? It’s not true that you need to be loved, that’s boloney. It’s nice to be loved. But the more you need it, the more you’re equipped to get hurt, angry, criticize, complain, argue, show jealousy. All these bad feelings come from the intellectual belief that you need to be loved, that you need to be believed, that you need to be trusted. “If it’s a nice thing, then I need it.” “Trust is a nice thing, so I need it.” No, you don’t. It’s desirable. And the more that you believe that you need it, the less that you’re going to have it. The purpose of needing is not to get the good thing, but to drive it away. It’s a subconscious trick. The part of our mind that wants to be unhappy, that wants to feel sorry for itself, that wants to be depressed, tells you that you need to be loved. You need to be understood. You need to be supported. You need to be agreed with. No, you don’t. Total boloney. And the more you believe it, you push it away.
   If it’s only a preference, that’s all that it is, you get it.

   email me if you want more.
3. BUTTERFLY says:

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   1st of all-it’s not your problem to deal with -Unless [it's your ex]
4. nay j says:

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   If her boyfriend left that means there was some problems. If he left it means he did not want to deal with the problems. Sometimes it is best to just leave things alone and move on.