What Do I Do? I Don’t Feel The Same Way
My bf and I have been dating now for a month. He’s really sweet and has made it extremely clear that he thinks he’s head over heels for me. However, I don’t share these feelings. To be honest, I don’t feel that there’s much of a click in the relationship.
As far as romance, he’s a dream, but I have a hard time keeping a causal “how was your day?” conversation flowing. I keep intending to do a gentle break-up (I don’t want to hurt his feelings, but I don’t want to mislead him), but everytime that I’m about to, he does some utterly sweet and romantic thing that makes me feel horrible about it.
For example, I got home from work and was going to give him a call to discuss it, but then I found out that he’d sent me a bunch of messages on AIM in the form of love poetry…I’ve tried giving him a second chance, but just don’t feel a connection.
How can I end this relationship without giving him heartache? He’s done just about everything but ask me to marry him, and I’m so stuck! I hate the idea of hurting such a wonderful guy’s feelings, but I know it will be worse if I wait much longer..
Random: The sad part…he actually does remind me of a one of the wolves that’s imprinted or something…I now understand Bella more than I bargained for (even though Jake didn’t imprint on her, you know what I mean).
Oh, AND he makes it even harder because he calls me “love” like Edward does to Bella, and he’s even quoted Edward before…he’s just too good of a romantic!!
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Do what Bella did to Jacob. xD
It’s hard to leave a sweet person, but think of how much hurt he’d feel if he found out you only indulged him because you felt bad? Just say "hey… I really need to tell you something…" he’ll understand if he really is a sweet caring person. (maybe he’ll pull an Edward Cullen on you… "Alright, whatever you feel is right. -smile-" That would make ME feel guilty. xD)
Also tell him how hard it was for you to do it because he’s such a great guy.