I Want My Ex-Husband Back, What Should I Do?
I want my ex-husband back what should can I do?
My x-husband and I have been divorced now for 3years and he is remarried. But I never stop loving him I just hide it as good as I can. He has moved on but over this past weekend I seen him at our kids soc-cor games and he told me he was so unhappy and that he was leaving his wife and that asked me if I want to move away.
We have 3 kids together and we were together for 17years. I know he still loves me by his actions and what he was telling me but I had to blow him off and say take care of your issues at hand before we do anything. I haven’t talked to him since saturday and I am going nuts because I so want to know if he is serious.
I have been on and off seeing people but no one could ever replace him and I just told a good friend what was said by him and she totally supports me trying it again if he is willing but what can I do?
I don’t want to get to excited and hope full if he really wasn’t serious because I sure don’t need to get hurt. But I know deep down and also what others have said and what he said he only married her to have one up on me because at that time I was seeing someone.
I know I would move away so that we can start fresh and be a family me. I want to figure out what I can do because I really do love him and I want him to know how can I or do you think I am wrong for saying anything please help!
Also he had told me this one other time that he was having problems but I thought he was happy now I thought they worked it all out that was about a year ago.
I never thought he was so unhappy. Also our kids don’t like his wife by her actions and his family hates her they all tell me he was so stupid to let me go. I seriously need help I am freaking out over it.
I can’t call him because she is very jealous of me and I try to not ever cause problems between them.
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I think you are going to have to call him. You made a major mistake by not admitting you wanted him back when he confessed his feelings at the soccer game.
I suspect you allowed your fear that it might not be true to overwhelm your hope that it could be. And now you are allowing that same fear to create excuses for you why you can’t possibly call him.
Is it RIGHT for you to make that call? No, because he’s married to someone else. But is it right for your KIDS that you make that call and get them their Father back…? I think you know the answer to that one, already…
Seriously, what is the problem? If you still love him, then by all means go after him. Sort things out. One step at a time. If this move fails, what have you lost? You just made a mistake but at least you’ve taken the chance on your future happiness and of your family. You can’t base your actions on other people’s happiness, it’s not the greatest thing to consider when we are talking about your own happiness. If it works out, it will work out. But not doing anything is the worst thing you could do right now.
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