In a ’27 Dresses’ type situation…help me out. ?
"Juliet" breaks up with "Quincy". Quincy is heartbroken. Months later, ol Q likes me and the feeling was mutual but we never move past ‘friends’, which is fine. Recently, J is avaliable again and Q decides to attempt to reignite romance. J doesn’t want to get back together. Q is completely in love with J (still) and isn’t the type to give in. Q tells me how much he loves her. I’m tempted to tell Q that J wants nothing to do with him to stop him from wasting his time but after listening to him, he tells me he’s really glad I’m his friend. Damn, now I’d feel bad. I and would like to see him happy and I’d rather be his friend then nothing at all. So if that’s the way I’ll fit into the Life Puzzle, so be it. (Right?) I tell J that she should give him a second chance because he’s changing himself completely…all for her. She doesn’t care and shows no signs of giving in. The future is bleak.
I didn’t intend to be in the middle, I just opened my eyes and I was the Monkey in the Middle. Aren’t I the dumbest, self-sacrificing little martyr ya ever did see? What in the world should I do?
So I’m basically trying to get my friend and her ex who still adores her and who I sort of like…back together.
Hit me on the head, please.
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oh wow
ok well be the nice girl first and talk to " J "
and if she says no way, talk to " Q " and tell him exactly what she said, then tell him, " It’s ok, " Q ", I’ll always be here for you. You don’t need " J ", there are people that really care about you….maybe even in this room"