what do you do when your friends /w benefits might get back with his ex girlfriend but still wants to keep you?
we have been friends with benefits for a whole semester while im still a senior in high school and he at college. We are really not like friends with benefits though. we can hang at like a regular couple. we do make out and stuff but we didn’t have sex. although we talk about it. Now is ex girlfriend is back from Europe and she wants to get back with him. I dont know how he completely feels about it. I know he really liked her but she treated him bad. and does it make sense if he got jealous if she was over in Europe getting her groove on with a ton of people. if he was doing the same thing with me? and his friend told me he got jealous but he inst the jealous type. he is friend lying just to get me going? He says that he has feelings for me but i just dont know what to do…please help!!!!!!!!!
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Well, if you are just friends with benefits there isnt much you can do. Thats why it messes with people. Sexuality brings on a whole new level of commitment to a relationship, even if there isnt sex, even if you arent commited, even if you are just friends. It adds to the drama of a relationship and causes problems, such as this. Talk with him about it, ask him how he feels. Maybe its time to take the relationship to the next level and actually be an item, or maybe its time to stop messing around with him and find someone that you can be fully involved with. I would say move on and find someone that will give you ALL of their feelings and wouldnt think twice if their ex girlfriend came back into the picture. Thats why the call them EX’s!! You owe it to yourself to be true to your own feelings and have someone be true to you as well.
i’d leave…you’re better than that
Wow, this is why friends with benefits doesn’t really work out. What do you care he is just your friend so let him go back to his girlfriend and shag you on the side. It is what you wanted right? Why change now and talk about feelings and what should I do?
This sucks, and i will agree friends with benefits dose not work. It sounds good and is cool. Now at one point one will grow feeling. not to say its love even though it could be. when you get the call that he or she is thinking about returning back to their EX, then you know what type of feeling you have. You might get mad at the situation and don’t want to show it just be cause friends with benefits title. you what to say fuck it and move on but you relly like this person. you want to tell them how you feel about them but you dont want to make a fool oue of your self or mess up what you have or even loose your friend. now on the other side you want for friend to go back to their ex, because then your relationship will no longer be there the way it was before and being that you caught some feelings for the person you feel feel hert and miss this person. now the real question is what do you do in this situation? do you say somethig about how you feel and where you want to go, or do you keep it bottled inside and just hope that everything works out in your favor? what is one to do at this point?