How Do I Get Him To Want Me Back?
I’m pregnant and alone… How do I get him to want me back?
My boyfriend and I had a great relationship, of course there were occasional arguments here and there, but nothing bad. We found out I was pregnant and everything was okay, then when I got to be about four months pregnant, he just left me. I don’t know if it’s because he was scared about becoming a father, or if my hormones drove him crazy.
But I still love him more than anything in the world, and I’d do anything to be back with him and raise our son together. It’s been almost three months since we split up, and we still talk to each other and stuff. And when we hang out, we act the same as we did when we were together (holding hands, kissing, etc…) I’m just so confused about everything, I’m having a baby in a couple months, and I just want us to be happy again and be a family.
Some of my friends say he’ll come around once the baby’s here, and others tell me to just move on…
Any advice?
My boyfriend and I had a great relationship, of course there were occasional arguments, but nothing bad. We found out I was pregnant and everything was okay, then when I got to be about four months pregnant, he just left me. I don’t know if it’s because he was scared about becoming a father, or if my hormones drove him crazy. But I still love him more than anything in the world, and I’d do anything to be back with him and raise our son together.
It’s been almost three months since we split up, and we still talk to each other and stuff. And when we hang out, we act the same as we did when we were together (holding hands, kissing, etc) Im just so confused about everything, I’m having a baby in a couple months, and I just want us to be happy again and be a family.
Some of my friends say he’ll come around once the baby’s here, and others tell me to just move on. Any advice?
PS. Im NOT some 14 y.o little middle school girl that made a mistake… I’m a responsible woman with a fulltime job…
P.S. Im NOT some 14 year old little middle- school girl that made a mistake… I’m a responsible woman with a great-paying fulltime job…
It’s not that I can’t take care of a baby on my own, I just want the best for my son, and I think it would be best for him to grow up in a family with a mother and father.
Wow, that turned out weird lol… I’m still kinda new on here.
I’m out of school lol…
I hate how people assume if you’re having a baby and you’re unmarried, you’re a child who made a mistake…
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you will be a good Mum I am sure, make sure you have other family/friends support,maybe if you just concentrate at this time on you and baby, this will be more beneficial, he could be scared of fatherhood, but, you know that it is scary for Mums too, but, we get there. Showing him you can manage without him, could be a wake up call for him, and if not then you know where you stand.
Be best to move on and find a good man to take care of u and your baby. Good Luck
i agree with the first answer.
Put your child up for adoption. I hurt for your single motherhood plight, but you were there when it all started so I don’t have to velvet glove your hard reality. Do your child a favor and don’t make it suffer for your errors. Your sperm donor pal has had his fun and now it’s time for him to run for some…more.
Ask him why he left you, if it is because of the baby then just give up on him he wouldn’t be a good Father anyways at least not for a few more years and just move on see if your family can help you take care of the baby until you can find a good man who is willing to help you and be with you and not bail half way threw.
Good luck
how old r yall? i think u need to TALK TO HIM ; find out why he really left youu; maybe he just wants space to think and will be back. or maybe you actually being prego scared him. these situations scare me ..id hate to be alone in that time of my life. God bless youuu !!
whenever you’re dealing with boys/men there is one variable- the unknown. either he will or he won’t.but it’s time for you to get some emotional support,from family or friends. you will need it because you are this baby’s mother.focus on the positive and let him figure out what he’s going to do,reach out to counselors at your school they can guide you towards programs that will help you.
i also agree with the first one