I want my ex back. How do I get him back?
Long story short:
My ex loved me, but I was insecure. After 1,5 years he ended it. I fell in love with him, I realized what I had neglected. He gave me a second chance two weeks later. Two weeks after that he dumped me again. He didnt feel anything he said. I cried. I called him the day after. It felt good to talk to him, as always. I said (but only kidding) that I would call again the next day. I didnt, and he called me. He said I was a manipulative brat! But he said it with humor while laughing. The next day he called, three times. He even called to say good night. I took care of his pet for four days. When he returned we ate in a restaurant, and went to my place. He sat on my lap while we talked. We kissed and I left for my 5 week vacation. I returned not knowing what he wanted as the signals had been mixed. I went to his place, drank some wine and it "clicked" for me. I needed answers. And now! He said he felt better off alone, not with me. I said we should have NO contact. He felt REALLY bad and convinced me to remain friends.
I stopped calling and texting him, and he sent me a text message 10 days later wishing me well and humorously saying I was strangely "silent". I answered. Today I called. We talked for 30 min. Nothing special, no "loving" vibes. Just friends. He seems afraid of sending me wrong signals again because he knows I want him. But he is still relaxed enough to talk and laugh with me.
My question: I really want him back! I have no longer expectations, just hopes. What do I do next. I said id start training 5 days I week. He said "Ive heard that one before". He has, many times. But Im serious now! To prove him and most important – me!
Had I not gone on my vacation he would not have gotten used to not seeing me so much.
What do I do…?
Ive told him I want him back already. But he doesnt want to.
Should I remain a friend? I dont want to be stupid and ignore him. I neglected him too much as a couple already.
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move on, find someone else. Trying to get someone back who doesn’t want to be taken back is a waste of time. You wont trust him, you’ll always be paranoid that he’ll dump you again. You’re better off with someone else.
Just tell him that you want him back and you miss him.
Goood Luck
Make sure he’s not playing with you.
Just tell him. No need to run around the bush, just tell him. If its meant to be it will be.
i had the same situation as yours.. i was also insecure of myself.. it was one-sided love.. it was him who loved me.. let me share this to you.. some things are better keep unspoken.. don\’t be paranoid, it will irritate him.. just hang out with him sometimes, with your common friends.. let things happen by itself.. simply smile and talk to him like a friend, you\’ll see things will get better for you.. there are only two consequences if you do this: 1)he might realized that he still love you (it\’s good for you) 2) It\’s Over.. you just have to stop it.. just promise your self, the next time you\’ll have a boyfriend, you should give importance to it.. some things are meant to happen.. Leave it to God! there are much more great things to come in your life.. hope you are lighten up by my advice.. good luck! GOD BLESS YOU!