Im in LOVE>>>WITH MY FORMER TEACHER! TELL ME YOUR OPINION ON THIS!?
THIS IS VERY LONG, VERY INTERESTING, AND VERY SAD!! SO PLEASE READ THE WHOLE THING BEFORE YOU ANSWER!
Okay..so when i was in high school i had this teacher who was 39 at the time and i was 14. I never had an attraction to her at first but then it just happened all of a sudden. I fell so so hard for her. I went to her house like everyday after school and we would go to church, go to the movies, and go out to eat. we mostly just hung around her house and just enjoyed each others company. around 10th grade we were at a football game and a man came up to her and asked her out and she asked my permission to go out with him and i was only 15 and so i said i didnt care and she said that i didnt have to worry about anything because they would never get married. After that first date, they got more and more serious about each other and it really really hurt me because im in love with her. Not only did it hurt me the man she went out on the date with told her that she needed to tell on me to the guidance counselor so she did because he threatened to break up with her. About 4 months after they were dating she found out he was cheating on her with his ex wife and automatically came running back to me. she told me she was so sorry for losing me and telling on me and that i was the only one who really cared about her and wanted to be with her and she was exactly right. We got to talking again but then the school found out about it and they got involved and so did the cops. my whole 11th grade year i had her class 1st period and it was like i was at home when i was around her. we had so much fun when other people was around and she would always want me to stay after to talk to me and would write me late passes. after that class it was summer and she started dating this man and he asked her to marry him and she said yes but everytime i would talk to her she would call of the engagement….and it happened 3 times. they finally broke up like 2 weeks before they were gonna get married and they stayed broken up for like 3 months. then like 3 weeks ago i sent her an email saying that i cared for her more than anything or anyone in this world and i sent it to her the email on the her school email….just to make sure she got it and my sister had her first period and she told me she was crying the day she was suppose to get it…..WHY DID SHE CRY? but i never got a reply but she got back with her ex the day after i sent it to her and now is engaged only after 3 weeks and now will not even talk to me or look at me…she will only look at me from a far and now her boyfriend is stalking me……i love her more than anything and this isnt lust or puppy love i am madly deeply in love with her…if God came and told me he was gonna take her i would let him take me instead of her and i just want to be with her for her…if i am with her i know i cant have kids but that is a sacrifice i am willing to make for her and if she told me she never wanting to have sex then i could live without it for the rest of my life….tell me what i should do…i have told me parents and they know everything and they said if i am happy then they are to….and dont give me the whole you should get over her.!!! WHY DID SHE GET ENGAGED SO QUICKLY OR GET BACK WITH HER EX SO QUICKLY? DO YOU THINK SHE IS SCARED OF HER REPUTATION? Everything i wrote in here i just a little description of what has happened. I can really live life without having sex and kids as long as i have her by my side. I do have a mom and i do not have issues…Just my heart is telling me to go for her and i love her more than anything? I SERIOUSLY WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH HER I LOVE HER EXISTANCE!!!
she has 2 kids…one kid doesnt care about it and the other is totally against it…do u think this could be a reason, she is not with me?
and also all her previous relationships her boyfriends have hit her and verbally abused her or cheated on her….do you think she is scared of commitment with me because i really do care about her and she knows i would never do that?
her kids are younger than me….
She cant lose her job because 18 in the legal age now! But if she did i could support her, because that would be my number 1 priority!
I dont go to that school anymore!
the feeling were mutual! now i have no clue. do you think i should wait on her, because she is the only one for me and i know it…and i know that letter had to touch her…what do you think?
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As much as I want to tell you that it’s wrong, you’re obviously in love with her, and if you’re truly in love, I don’t want to get in your way.
Talk to her, face to face. Tell her exactly how you feel. And make sure you say nothing about age. Make that little fact irrelevant. Saying you don’t care won’t prove it. Not saying anything about it will. If you truly feel that strongly about her, don’t let anyone/anything stand in your way.
I think you need to just back off and not get involved with a woman old enough to by your mother…and how would you even begin to support a woman with two kids who are barely younger than you….sorry but this seems like a problem life.
You both need therapy!
Sounds like you got to old for her, maybe you should try to find some one that is emotionally available for you.
This is weird! my husband is 63 and I am 45, but we were not around each other when I was in school or college. We met 9 years ago and married 8 years. Age difference is not your problem. You have other issues.
This is wrong on so many levels. Even though you’re "of age" right now, you met this so-called teacher when you were very young. Even though you "think" she’s the one for you, this is a little bit delusional. You need to be living your life, growing up, and experiencing a lot of different things. Do you realize this woman is old enough to be your mother?
How old are her kids? You do realize that you’re in THEIR generation? I feel as if there’s something going on here that we don’t know about because you’re an 18 year old boy who is willing to go without sex and children for the rest of your life to be with an aging woman who tried to seduce you when you were 15! Think about that!
I suggest getting away from this woman for a year or so, figuring out your life, and experiencing something else. Go to college. Get a degree. Get a good job. You have your whole life ahead of you, and trust me–in 5 years you will have changed so much that you won’t even know yourself looking back.
You are 18, which is what matters NOW – therefore there is nothing wrong with the relationship. Talk to her. That is the only way that you will be able to fully see and believe what her wishes are.
I do not agree with the inappropriate relationship that an adult had with a child. I just wanted to make that clear –
but your question was not about that, it was about a man and a woman, both of legal age.
After reading this I feel if she does care she is letting you go for your own good. You never would have the things you need in life. A family ! She is a lot wiser than you are go let her go .I think with her you was a friend that she could talk to but yet you fall in love with her. You was someone that made her feel very special.She knows it is not meant to be, So move on honey let her have the life she wants.You will have a true love she is out there waiting for you
I am in the same boat as you are hun. Dont feel bad. I dont know what to do either. And I am in love with him
This is so wrong. She doesnt care if she did it would have taken weeks to get over it.