what is up with my husbands ex girl friend of only two weeks ?
this is a letter she last sent him after i called her to see what her intentions were with my husband friends or wanting him back ect.. anyhow she says I am out of line when she is the one that contacted my husband threw facebook I was being nice until she got upset when I told her that he deleted her numbers and his facebook account she called me a ghetto bitch and went off on me so I got mean right back she hung up on me and i never called her again but she wrote him this
Hey.
I know you wrote something on my wall on face book before you tore your account down but once you take your account off, the messages erase.
So I’m not quite sure what transpired but I do know that your wife called my cell phone the other day cursing at me. She demanded I leave you alone and never contact you again. She said she made you take your account down off face book and made you erase my numbers off your phone.
I just want to let you know that I understand. I am unsure what your feelings are of this situation but since you complied with her demands, I can only assume how you feel. Again, I understand. Your marriage is much more important than any friendships you aquire.
I do request that you have your wife leave me alone. Her calling me with all that ghetto talk is not appropriate. I asked her to talk like the adult she is but she just kept on with the barbaric language. T told her that it sounded like a conversation she should be having with you, not me. I, of course, told her to leave me alone.
And just to leave you with a final thought: James, you are a beautiful person. You always have been. It was nice to speak with you again and to hear of everything you have done with your life. I hope you are happy or find happiness in your life. I need not speak of the possesive nature of your marriage, I’m sure you are dealing with it the way you know how. I just hope she learns to treat you like her partner in life and not like a possesion she can keep hidden from eveyone. You have so much greatness to share with people, I hope you do. I am always here if you need a friend. I have no hard feelings from what occured. She turned everthing around and made me out to be the bad guy whe she is the one who was intruding on our marriage my husband chose not to contact her back after this letter my question is what were her intention with my husband was she trying to get him back or what they were talking for a month and a half on his cell and I didnt even know until we had a 300 dollar cell phone bill hour long talk s and all when I wasnt around which scares me he keeps telling they were just getting caught up but does it really take that long and he did stop talking to her for me but I am having a hard time trusting him what should I think
she lives in MT and were in TX thank god
she said I was being ghetto and using barbaric language she was doing it too maybe I shouldn’t have contacted her but if she would have been nice to me I would have said they could keep talking as long as it was in secret i can be reasonable but not if her intentions are bad
sry wasn’t in secret lol cant type tonight I also did discuss everything with my husband first but hes not a real good communicator need I mention we was injured in Iraq 3 years ago and I have been there threw everything with this man I think I deserve resprect
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It was a poor choice to disscuss that with her, especially in that sort of tone. It really does make you look like the bad guy. Even if you DO not feel comfortable I think and appology would be in order. The fact is insecurities lead to bad things and tear marriages apart.
Take the fun out of it, be ok with it. That will remove any fun he may have with it and he will be more careful about how he approaches it. I dont promote snooping but if you continue to allow it he will not be as careful if the intentions are of a malice nature
Instead discuss with your husband your concerns but comprimise on some things. Make sure he understands that he does not need to sneak around to communicate with her. As if he is adamant to do so will become secretive. Concentrate on using this situation to better your marriage. Let it be a positive thing for him and you alike by feeling him out and expressing your concerns.
Communication is key and anything relating should be discussed with your husband and no one else.
That message is worded to make you look like the instigator and the "evil one". And if he wants to catch up thats his perogative, you are married but he still has his own friends. If he wants to catch up with her go hang out with your friends in the meantime. Your husband does seem to comply with your wishes so he seems like a good faithful guy.
Stay reasonable and comprimise and always have faith in your partner. Discuss with him what you believe is approapriate amount of time to catch up and where to draw the line.
Please just dont be naive and keep everything in perspective. You know your husband better than anyone on yahoo answers and probably already know how to approach him.
This does have great pottential to manifest into a very unheathly situation for both of you.
Do not trust either of them.
it sounds to me like she was totally trying to steal your husband. and the cell bill is really bad on your hubby but from the sound of this letter i dont think he did really do anything that bad, besides being naive.
That sounds like my ex and my ex best friend. The exact same BS.
He told me the same chit. That it was all nothing. That it was catching up. And she acted like I was in the wrong when I confronted her. She use to be my fu cken best friend! Anyways, I left him eventually because I didn’t believe him and would find them having secret ways of communicating even though he told me he wouldn’t. Well, they hooked up quick. And then we went to court for kids. And then he came back. I haven’t taken him back but the point is he revealed that she wanted him but of course He was INNOCENT…….bull s@it! That is what he says. She wrote him a text saying the same chit. Anyways, follow your gut. That is all you can do. Found out what you are worth and then take it from there. Make your actions go with your worth.
You should write a soap on this. He needs to explain what is going on. Tell your hubby straight up that she is intruding and to stay away. I am married and we have friends of both genders, but we include each other and friends with each other too. He had one ex girlfriend that I did not like and he told her that he is not to talk to her unless they say hello in a polite way. They work near each other and a polite hello is fine.