How to get over rejection and fix this situation please help?
Okay my previous story:
Okay so at the begginning of the year i joined a club and there was this guy he was funny and not very popular. he is east indian. anyway so he really started talking to me a lot and he even walked me to my locker one day (just waiting for me as a friend though). I started to like him but when i like someone i get shy. every day hed look at me in the morning and stuff we were never really close but i think he did like me. anyway eventually i didnt start talking to him or making my move because im too nervous and he stopped talking to me. he stopped starring and everything. now i see occasional glances and it was so weird. at the club the other day ever time it was my turn to speak/preform he walked to the back of the room and totally did something else. and i MEAN EVERY TIME and it was only to me. and if he couldnt walk away he would turn around and put his head down every time it was my turn to preform. isnt that odd?
what is this guy saying?
ALSO since the begginning of the year hes become quite popular. Not very, but quite. Hes the funny guy everyone likes now and im still that girl who looks stuck up all the time, only because im so shy,
And NOW: today i go to school and i told my friend to tell him I like him, not today but on friday before march break so he could have a week to think about it and stuff and watever and I was gonna tell her to say "She likes you."
BUT INSTEAD she went up to him TODAY and asked him. do you like christina? and he was like…uh… no. and she was like are you sure? and he was like uh yea!
Like not in a rude way but she said he seemed surprised at the question. SO anyway now he thinks im a weirdo chick who likes him and i have to see him twice a week and i dont want him to tell people and stuff. What can i do to fix this. Im really heartbroken!
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it’s just one guy. so what if he tells people you like him? it’s not gonna kill you. you act as tho this is the first time you’ve heard the word "no". you’re going to hear it a lot. and put yourself in his shoes. would you go around teling everybody that "so and so" liked you? no, you’d probably tell friends. now what if one of your friends went up to you and started having a casual conversation and along the way she mentioned that some guy liked her. would you care all that much? would you have a reason to actually go tell someone? no… i mean you might if you were one of those gossiping kinda girls. but i wouldn’t. i would think a lot of people wouldn’t do that either. you’re just over reacting. calm down. it isn’t a big deal. you’re just a teen and you’ll probably be rejected a lot more times later in life. it’s natural to be worried but there’s nothing to worry about. the fact that you told your friend to tell him you like him isn’t fixable but it’s not a big mistake. you shouldn’t worry
haha i answered your last question too
have no fear most indians are heartless liars so you should be happy you were rejected…….
I understand what you’re going through…You Like Person – Person Doesn’t Like You Back.
I’ve decided to try and take the ‘it’s fine’ approach and act like we’re just friends.
Don’t do this.
I’ve also tried the whole, Jealousy thing.
This doesn’t work either.
If you’ve told him about how serious you are, he’s not gonna buy it.
If you ignore him, he’ll think that you don’t care at all.
I think the only thing to do, is accept the fact that he isn’t interested. It’s not the easiest way, but it’s probably the best way.
Everyone is different in how they cope about these kinds of things. I think you should write it down. Find someone that you’re close with and read it out to them. Whenever you’re feeling truly emotional, write down all your feelings and be descriptive. It only works if you write AS you’re experiencing the emotions.
It might seem weird at the moment, but once you get all those feelings out, you’ll feel like a huge weight has been lifted off your back.
Eventually, you’ll take all the tension away. Just don’t bottle away your feelings and try to ignore them.
Talk to friends, listen to music, write, paint, create and every now and then, take a break to watch The Notebook and eat a pint of Ben and Jerry’s Chunky Monkey ice cream.
Other than that, keep your options open. If it’s meant to be, it’s going to happen and if not, then you’re going to recover and you’re going to find someone to make you happy.
All you can do, is hope for the best and prepare for the worst.
i would also talk to him, reassure that you two are cool with each other. now (and this is a very small chance) he might actually like you, however it is not part of Indian Culture to date. so he might be afraid of "The Indian Community’s" opinion of him as well as fearing his parents. seriously though you need to talk to him, trust me Indians don’t like having too many enemies, so he should be more than willing to talk to you. tell him that you were kind of into him, but are perfectly fine with just being friends. then you know spend time with him, and he’ll eventually warm up to the idea of dating you.
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