Me and my now ex-boyfriend are planning on getting back together (I think) but he wants me to do something?
Today me and my boyfriend got into another huge fight and he said that he can’t have me and him being together because he says its hurting him…..he means the way I treat him. He’s more of a PDA kind of guy and hes saying that he wants me to be the girl that I am over text ( which is cute and sexy and flirty). I’m willing to do anything to get this guy back as the guy that I love. Please help me!
Im 14 and I really need help…..I want him back so badly….If you’re around my age and/or have had a similar problem to mine please leave me your email address (optional) if I need further assistance on the matter.
Thanks
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You are 14. He will probably not be with you a year from now, and even sooner if you give him to him now. If he cared he would never makes these demands on you. When you text sexy messages, you get people who expect you to give it up, so I suppose you are ready for what happens after you give yourself away to him.
If you are willing to do anything, why do you ask for help? Poor boy is hurting!
Alright I went through a similar situation about 4 months ago. I was dating my boyfriend of 1 year, but during that time span, we broke up and got back together 3 times. At first, when we’d break up, I’d feel relieved, but then a week would pass and I’d start to "miss" him. Turns out he "missed" me as well, so we’d always get back together, stating what would be different, and what we’d change to stay together. Those plans would work for awhile, but then we always just ended up at square one. I claimed to love him. I later found out, once we were broken up for good, in was merely infatuation. I liked the comfort, and security of having someone there for me at the end of the day, not really taking into consideration whom it was. We talked about it, and have been broken up for about 3 months now. I have moved on from him, and found out that it really wasn’t love as I claimed, just security. You want him back to have someone, but I’m sure you’re just worried you won’t find another guy. But you will, hunny, you’re only 14. You’ve got your whole life ahead of you. You’ll make it. Time and persistence is all it takes.
In the future though, you should try to talk to your boyfriends and such instead of talking through texting. It often leads to flirty, sexy talking with portrays an attitude that is not really you. I would know. :p