Help! I want my ex husband back! Im so Stupid!?
My ex and I have been divorced since May. I was ok with it and have been fine until I found out he is dating our bank teller that we closed our account with. I love him still and it sickens me the thought of him with her. I gained weight while we were married and he resented that. This girl is gorgeous and everything he could ever want. So, I went out and got a personal trainer and have been working my butt off to look better then this new girl. Will he try to come back or hit on me? My heart wants it but my instinct tells me when he does to tell him "no way, no how!" Im obsessing over this.Ive been to counceling and its helped a little but the thought of him and her being intimate makes me sick. What should I do?
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The fact that he has a girl shouldn’t change anything for you. He’s on a rebound romance. He’s just delaying his crash.
Just be tough for a while. Working out is good. You should go out too. Distract yourself with things you like to do. You’ll get over this and find a guy who is good for you.
You should move on with your life and stop obsessing about your ex. There is a good reason he is your ex, just think back to the bad times
Move on.
just leave it alone go out and find someone that will love you for you not someone that when things get hard wants out. good luck
You should have worked harder on your marriage.
Your trying to be better..just let go of him..
he picked her over you ..and deal with it
Move on with the male teller at the bank.
Okay this is a hard one cause i am going through a divorce i have two kids by my husband well we will be divorced in two months and i still love him and just like you he has this new girl that makes me sick she is smaller but to me she is uglier in the face. He says she acts just like me go figure but everytime i talk to him now its me getting cussed out or he doesnt want to discuss anything he is all about her which makes me sick cause he was never like that with me. But i look at it like this i filed for divorce cause he didnt make me feel like me anymore and he downed me for everything. There is a reason you two got a divorce. I just keep thinking i know he is having sex with this girl and she is nasty so there is no way i would mess with him ever again but i still love him. I just keep telling myself he has changed for the worse and we will never be what we could have been.
Loose the weight and give him the best bj of his life that will make him have second thoughts for sure.
you only want him because someone else has him no other reason, work your butt off and move on ..
Read what Amy Amy wrote. Then read it again. If you’re still not sure, read it again.
Ok, here is my take on it- you didn’t want him until someone else did. It’s just your jealousy getting the best of you.
Continue working out and getting yourself in shape, if you look better then you’ll feel better and more confident and that will attract the right type of guy that you want in your life.
Find some hobbies, working out is a good one. Go out with some girl friends and have a good time. Start some projects around the house like rearranging or painting a room (change in scenery will also help get rid of those old memories).
In the mean time, let him be happy. Just remember a few things- she is his rebound and you had him first, she’s just getting your sloppy seconds!
And, as much as us new wives or in this case girlfriend don’t like to admit it, we always know in the back of our mind that you had him first and it’s haunting!!
Don’t you be that stupid. You already proved to the world that you are better without him….look around….there are so many to pick from…
You are only jealous and it’s perfectly normal that after sharing time, intimacy, love and care with someone you feel like this.
He doesn’t worth a penny on the floor…don’t try to pick him up.