How do I get her back?
I got into a big fight with my ex gf we had been broken up for about a month, we tried bein friends, but she said she needed space and she that she felt weird, but I was a stubborn dickhead and took the path of flipping out on each other, bottomline is some harsh things were said and we decided not to talk to each other anymore. She was the love of my life how can I get her back? Is there even a chance?
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If you want her back, let time pass. time heals everything man, so give her the space and in a few months go back to her if you feel like it. Just try and stay away from it for a while until the tension cools, trust me, it’ll be the for the best
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Tell her that you still sincerely love her.
1) Send roses with a card that says "I’m not trying to get you back – I just want to say I’m sorry for how I acted.
2) If she does not contact you – move on.
3) If she does contact you, focus only on light, fun conversation. Use open ended questions (usually they begin with a W) like What have you been up to? Where’s your favorite vacation spot? Why? When did you realize I was such a jerk?
These questions lead to more conversation, as opposed to "yes or no" questions. Have a light hearted fun conversation, maybe remember one fun time together, then say you have to go. Invite her to call back any time.
4) If she never calls back, move on. If she does, just take it from there… "a bunch of us are going to the festival, want to come?"
You got this…
Do you genuinely love her..? Ask yourself..Go through everything that went between and be responsible to whatever has happened. tell her that these things happened. After you confess this things with her it will help understand the situation. Make sure you don’t end up You did this and that, but simply go with these things went wrong. This attitude will make things better for your.
All you can do is apologise, tell her exactly what you just told us…and tell her you’ll be there for her if she needs you and then just give her, her space…if she wants to move on, let her…if she still feels the same and wants to work on it..she will come back…Just give her the space she needs for now…tell her you;ll give it to her but you are still willing to work on things, and make it up to her because she is the love of your life and you dont not want to let the love of your life go!
goodluck
Hi, I suggest that you give your ex the time and space she asked from you the first time. Give her time to think of what she wants in your relationship in the future. Give her at least a week or two then try to talk to her about the whole thing that happened.
Apologize for your mistakes and listen to what she has to say. What she’ll say may hurt you but never barge in while she’s speaking let her finish what she needs to say. When you talk to her look deep in her eyes to let her feel that you are sincere on wanting her back.
If you both decided to get back together then it would be best to learn to adjust on both your personalities. Try to change the attitude she dislikes and always make her feel important.
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You should apologise to her. You know you messed up but you need to let your girlfriend know that you’re aware what went wrong so that there’s no risk of it happening again. If you want to it to work out you have to be totally honest and genuine.
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