How can I get him back? ?
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How can I get back my ex? ?
My ex and I were in a long distance relationship (he goes to uni), when we broke up. He thought I didn’t care about his big move, but I cared for him more than anything. He’s back for the holidays, and I saw him yesterday. There was no awkwardness at all between us. He did compliment me and said I looked great. When we hugged he held me quite close, almost like the hugs we used to have but not as passionate. When he left me he said "Its been nice to see you… I’m glad we met up… Its been really nice…" and kept repeating himself. He gave me the same look he gave me before he left for uni when we were together. The one that says "I will miss you". His lips were twitching, his eyes looked hurt and sad. I don’t know, maybe I’m misreading the signs. He also kept his hands firmly in his pockets while we were walking. If our hands did touch, we’d quickly move them away. And when I caught him staring he quickly looked away.
I really want him back, but I don’t know how he feels about that. We’re good friends now, but now I feel like ranting to him about stuff, and I don’t know if I should or not. I just really really want him back. I’ve never been with a guy as amazing as him before.
I don’t want to confront him directly, as if the worst comes to worst I still want to be his friend. He’s an amazing guy and I don’t want to leave him forever. How can I bring back our relationships subtly?
Help please?
And no mean comments, thanks.
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why dont u just act like u guys are best friends n talk .when my bf broke up wi me thats what i did n he asked me if we wanted 2 go out again
Hope this helps~Vidyaa
Girl i think you should let him know how you feel before he goes back to school. It sounds like yall had a good relationship before he left.Don’t let your true love get away. You know he misses you just as much as you do him. Men never tell us how they feel that’s why it’s our job to do it. Let him know how you feel you better get him before someone else does.
Well it’s obvious he likes you again! You should try talking to him again and just ask him"do you still have feelings for you" if he says yes say "i do too, and i’ve been thinking about you a lot ever since you moved,and i would really would like to get back with you.
But if he says no,then dont freak out just say "oh" then explain why you thought he has feelings for you.
This is an excellent time for self enrichment. Intellectual growth is a very impressive element of friendship. Friends build a foundation upon which a relationship can be built.
The preliminary social encounters are learning experiences to enhance social skills. Personal development brings more to the sharing within a relationship than aesthetics, emotions, and sensuality.
Academic, athletic, and extra curricular achievement provides mutually encouraging interests relative to career and educational goals. Focus on becoming successful. The prospects of a meaningful relationship increase significantly with accomplishment.
Demonstrate how you are growing intellectually when you next communicate.
Just start increasing the amount of time you spend with him. Make him feel important. Make a move on him, he will appreciate it. Every time you see him make follow on dates. If he does not get drift, just ask to watch a movie with him.
Everything sounds like it’s in line for you guys getting back together. I believe you read him correctly in the time you have been hanging out over the break.