When is it o.k. to get back with your wife?
My wife kicked me out, and now i live in a basement. It sucks, but that’s how it is. She was always verbal pretty mean to me, sadly that’s how she grew up. She told me to leave before, I I never did. This time, I just couldn’t take it no more. We also have to children.
It’s only been 5 days and she said that she misses me and that she is sorry. She’s never said that before. She said she didn’t think that I’d ever leave. I went to see her and she was all crying and everything. I want to stay away, but I have to admit I’m feeling weak, I think she might mean it?? Like I say, it’s only been 5 days… How long should I hold out? However… This new found freedom is pretty cool too! 
Thanks!
"go back and deal with it"… Oh… O.k.
You have NO clue what I had to deal with. Trust me, if I was a girl thats not what you’d be saying!
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Well it sounds like your wife had issues from her childhood and she is taking it out on you. But you need to go back home and see if she’s really changed and give her the benefit of the doubt. Actions speak louder than words and if she doesn’t prove to be better by you after you go back then leave.
Do it now before it is too late! She’s sorry don’t leave her like that.
youshould go back to your wife and she if shes changed
She’s your Wife, go back home and deal with it. You are the man, expect her to speak to you with respect, like you do her hopefully, tell her this.
Your kids need to come first. They need a loving mum and dad at home together.
Your freedom isn’t worth anything compared to giving your children a happy home.
Enjoy your new found freedom, then.
Sounds like you want to go back. You should then, but not without certain conditions.
Anyone who verbally abuses another needs professional help to determine the roots of the behavior. I think you both should go and see a counselor–she to figure out her abuse, and you to figure out why you continually take it from her.
Good luck…if for no other reason than those kids you both created.
It sounds like your wife has some serious issues, if you were a woman everyone one here would be saying to leave the abusive jerk! Double standards! Anyway, what I think you should do, is keep holding out. After another week, then tell her you really love her and want to go back to her, but only if she’s willing to change her abusive ways. Tell her you either want her to see a counsel er or that you want both of you to go into marriage counseling. Make her really miss you, and want to work it out. If she’s not willing to go, then tell her you can no longer put up with her abuse.