It seems that women talk a big game about love, romance and relationships, but what do women really know about the topic? Women talk about finding a guy with certain values and qualities, but if he doesn’t have perfect looks she won’t want anything to do with him. If a women were to meet a guy with no good values, nor qualities, but he looked a certain way she will give him a million chances. I’ve always believed that if you meet a person and the sparks aren’t there the first second it’s ok. I’ve always felt that if you give a person a chance and get to know them you might find yourself surprised by that person and you might find yourself liking, wanting and appreciating that other person. For me a good relationship takes time to build, so as long as no red flags are out its ok. And if the sparks aren’t there on first look it doesn’t mean it won’t be there on second or third look. Why do women think that they know the second they meet a person if that person is right for them, or not?
Why not give a person a chance to prove themselves? It seems that women are very impatient and want Instant gratification, instant sparks, and instant attraction.
To me this seems like lust. And all women want to have is constant perpetual lust. I don’t think there is anything wrong with that, just stop pretending you want more. Actions speak louder than words and a woman’s actions suggest that infatuation and lust is what women are really after. Am I wrong? Going out into the dating scene I see a ton of women talk about wanting a certain type of guy, and complaining that he doesn’t exist, but when she meets that good guy she will look for anything to nit pick at no matter how small in order to blow the guy off. Then she ends up going out with a guy who is the exact opposite of what she said she is looking for. And a month later she is single again complaining that all men are scum, only wanting one thing and good guys don’t exist.
It seems the dating scene is a never ending cycle where all women really want to do is complain. From people I have met for the first time I must have heard how funny, sweet, nice, thoughtful I am a million times at least. If I never hear those things again I’ll be just fine, because after hearing it so many times I know. Tell me if this makes sense. A woman might say she is into a person, because he possesses certain qualities i.e. funny, caring, and sweet just to cover up the fact she has ulterior motives in why she is really into him, because in reality that guy might not actually possess any of those traits. A woman might say she doesn’t want to be judged based on looks, but on whom she is, but it seems she doesn’t know how to give the same courtesy back. In reality the only thing that matters to women is what’s on the outside and what’s on the inside doesn’t. If a woman were to say it does matter than she is just lying to you, or herself. Am I right in saying that?
When a woman meets a nice guy why is her first instinct to walk all over him? Are women insane? If a guy asks for a woman’s opinion in her mind he isn’t a take charge type of guy. If he doesn’t ask all of a sudden he doesn’t value her opinions. If a guy shows some sensitivity he all of a sudden is a wimp. It seems everything is a double edge sword with a woman and I am dammed if I do and damned if I don’t. Women talk about wanting to find themselves in a good relationship and wanting to be with someone who wants to be with them, but if they find themselves meeting that person all of a sudden she thinks he’s needy and the woman runs away. It seems that women are the ones who are really scared of commitments. A woman finds a guy that is married all of a sudden she wants to be with him too. Don’t women know that if a guy cheats to be with you he will likely cheat on you too?
Am I right, or wrong in saying a woman talks about wanting a guy who listens, because she doesn’t know how to listen herself and all she wants to do is talk? Also, am I wrong in saying a women talks about communication skills, but she expects a man to be a mind reader and women are really bad at communicating themselves? A woman might ask a guy to open up more, but if he ever does than all of a sudden he is being unfair to her by burdening her and over whelming her with a problem he might have. I think if a guy is in a relationship with a woman he should value her, show her how much he cares and be there for her. But why if a guy ever asks for appreciation and the same in return he is being needy? Are there any women out there who actually know how to listen, communicate and open up themselves? I can’t tell you how many women I’ve met over the years crying and saying there last bf cheated on them several times and they took the guy back several times.
After awhile I start to think women want guys to cheat on them. After all a cheater is a challenge and women loves challenges. It just seems that guys who respect women aren’t considered a challenge and therefore she doesn’t want anything to do with him. Making a relationship work is hard enough, so why can’t a woman find the challenge in helping a guy out in making the relationship work. I think women are very destructive in how they go about relationships? Women when in a relationship seem to want to constantly test a guys love for her and if he can’t the games any more he fails the test, but if he keeps coming back the tests keep coming and the guy is nothing more than a doormat. Anyone agrees, or disagree? Say a woman is in a relationship with a guy and things start to fizzle down the woman will leave the relationship instead of doing something to get the relationship back on track.
I say this because women think with there emotions, so if things aren’t great for them they instantly think it must be over. It seems that guys have to do everything in a relationship for a woman. Women talk about trust, but a woman will test and betray that trust at every turn and it feels like women want guys to put them in there place. Are women like little children where they constantly need to be entertained and if they aren’t they will cause mischief and find ways to cause trouble? Paris Hilton called herself a role model the other day and she is right. It seems that women everywhere value a good party above all else and all a women really wants to do is get drunk, flash her chest and dance on top of tables. Again, I don’t have a problem with a woman doing that at all. I just want to know if any woman out there really knows what an adult relationship is about and if they know how to make one work.
Statistics show that 70% of all women would marry a guy strictly based on money. Many surveys show that women have an ideal look in mind for a partner, but she would date someone who doesn’t fit that look if the guy is rich. They have done surveys with women in speed dating events where she says she is looking for someone with certain qualities, but the results show her decision making has nothing to do with the qualities of the guy, but 100% based on looks. If a women breaks up with, or doesn’t want to be with a guy the guy is told be a man, move on and get over it. If a guy breaks up with, or doesn’t want to be with a woman then he for some reason he is a jerk, or has commitment issues. If a woman has her emotions hurt then if she does anything in retaliation i.e. destroying his car, ruining his credit, or trashing his reputation she is justified somehow?
It seems that women only think with there emotions, so if they feel a certain way then anything they do is rationalized and justified. Do women even know right from wrong? Are all women selfish, shallow, judgmental, manipulative, deceitful, insane and gold digging where they only like unavailable guys, or guys that treat them like garbage, or guys that are rich for no other reason then they are rich? And once a women gets what she wants, i.e. money she will leave the relationship. I don’t have anything against women for I believe in a woman’s freedom of choice, and freedom to vote. And I think a woman has every right to move up the ladder of success for I believe many women could do corporate jobs just as well as any man if not better. I’ve even voted before for some women into political positions. I think one of the greatest prime ministers that ever lived was a woman. I just want to know in the dating scene are there are any good women who are worthwhile?
I was at this coffee shop the other day for an open mic night and these women in front of me where making smug comments about everyone who went on stage. In the list above I forgot to mention snobby, stuckup, and completely full of themselves. Women really need to get over themselves. On the radio the other day this one guy called in asking for opinions about this argument he was in with his GF and he wasn’t in the argument, but his GF got on his case about something stupid. Women talk about understanding, but it seems they can’t see past there own noses to understand any ones elses point of view. When a woman talkes about understanding she just means she wants others to understand her point of view no matter how ridiculous it might be.


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