How to get over a girl who doesn't like you?
I’m in love with a girl for the past 4 yrs. First 2 yrs. I used to talk to her all the time in my class room when ever I was free (my classmate in college days). She knew my feelings, but she never cared about it.
After college we went on our way for our jobs in two different cities (bit far). Initially I called her 3-4 times and chat was just as classmates (I noticed this time that she never stored my number – shows how much she considers me). Last year I had decided to open up to hear what she has to say – we both were at our hometown that time. I bought a gift for her and called her asking if I could meet her, for which she had given some excuses and avoided me. That was the last time I called her, I controlled myself though I wanted to call her often and say everything. Few days back out of huge stress, I called up one of my closest friends and told her that I gonna meet my love to say everything. My friend and she work in a same city and in college also they used to be together. My friend replied when I said all these, "You know what, not to hurt you, but to tell the truth. I’m being around your love there and while and I know she not even thinks of you even as friend. She least bothers you, not even cares 0.1% as you do. Now I’m not stopping you, but from my knowledge if you meet her for this, you will get hurt more than what your having now – you got to move on and you have plenty in life other than her". What my friend said did not surprise me as I know it already, but it hurts me and now helped me to take a clear decision – I got to get out of my love and forget her and enjoy my life.
Your advice will help me a lot on this!
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1. Remember that she doesn’t like you
2. Try to think of as many things that you doesn’t like in her
3. Build up your confidence
4. Go on a diet, exercise, change your routine
5. Try to mingle with new people
6. Find new friends
7. Be happy.
Playboy, man.
A quote I like to think about in situations like these:
“Trying to make someone fall in love with you is about as pointless as trying to control who you fall in love with.”
There’s millions of women in this world, she’s not the one.
stop stalking u pervert
its hard to get over someone, but it might help if you fall in love wiht someone else
go out with your friends and have a good time while you are still young. life goes very fast. i can’t believe how fast. god may have another plan for you. move on.
Been there my friend. Best thing to do is keep busy. Hang out with friends. Work. whatever you can do. Only time can heal those wounds. And believe me life does get better. Goodluck!
I’ve been in the same situation in High School and I was in love with this girl but she would never look twice at me. She knew I existed but never really seemed to care. She was in and out of relationships many times with one guy who I knew cheated on her a few times but I never said anything to her cuz I never ever wanted to hurt her. When we were on the swim team together we kissed once at a swim meet and on the bus ride home she gave me a chance to make out with her and go further than one kiss, but of course I didn’t take that option, I never kissed more than that one time. Its because I didn’t want to take advantage of her and just hurt her like her last relationship that was always up and down. When she was in that relationship I saw her in a lot of pain every day and i knew if i kissed I would be that guy that would be causing her pain and I wouldn’t love myself if I knew I was the one hurting her so I didn’t rush into it. But we never got the chance to hang out alone or go on a date together so that she could understand my true feelings and now shes a thousand miles away and I’ll never get to see her again. So what I did was lived life and did what I loved and i meet who is now my fiancee at a church camp. Basically what I’m saying is the old saying of "If you love her you’ll let her go." And if you keep doing your thing and keep an open heart then the pain in your heart will fade away leaving room for another love. Just don’t give up man I believe you have the will power to be happy and successfully in life.