How To Bring Back The Spark?
How do we bring back the spark in our relationship.?
My fiance and I have been together for two years now and we have a little boy who is our world…
In the beginning our relationship was amazing.. but lately it seems like the spark went out and I don’t know how to get it back…
I’m really shy… and sensitive about the way I look and the way I act sometimes… I still get all nervous around him…
So my question is… have any of you gone through this?
And if so… how did you bring back the fire in your relationship/marriage…
Any suggestions are much appreciated…
And from everyone…
thank you
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No worries, I have been through this.. First find a really good, honest, babysitter like a sister or grandparents someone who would take care of your child without you or your fiance to worry!!
Take a drive down the coast (if you live in California if not some place romantic) and spend the weekend with only you and him. Do things that you wouldn’t usually do. I know you are shy, but you need to rekindle what you had..Your fighting for your life so everything is a go!! (well almost everything)
On the way back home, give him a look, a sexy look, a look that would remind him of the weekend you guys just spent..
So, when u get back home every time you give him the look he would know exactly what you are thinking of!!
Good Luck!!
I recommend listening to some hypnosis cds that are related to this topic. It is amazing how the spark can come back as a guiding flame when you break through your blocks…
Well it just takes a little effort. Try maybe getting someone to mind your little boy, then go out for dinner, have some romance and a naughty dessert at home. Or send him texts…..something so simple can set things alight again.
Try going to church together.
When you start a family then the kids become the focal point in a relationship. You have to make time for just the two of you. Try DATE night. One night a week get a sitter and go out to eat,go to a movie or just stay home and eat over candle light and then time for the two of you intimately. Try to get a sitter for over night so you are not rushed. Even if you can only do it a couple days a month it gives the two of you something to look forward to.
You’re learning that a woman who wants a healthy marriage, has to fiercely love her man.
Sometimes that means telling whole world that you love your fella. Sometimes it means telling your man intimately, quietly, personally.
And sometimes, it means loving him, even when he falls out of love with you for a time.
Fierce loving women make it through all the ups and downs. So strive to fiercely love your man. Women tend to follow in all worldly concerns. But in concerns of the heart, they have to lead. Otherwise nothing works correctly.
Now, what would a woman, who fiercely loved her man, do in this situation?
Build up that ferocity of love in your chest, let it overwhelm all other thoughts, sensations, feelings, doubts, and fears. Make your love the only thing in your soul and go find your man. Whatever comes to mind is what you should do to him. Don’t stop to consider it.
No matter what you do, it’ll bring back the spark in the relationship.
Good Luck!
I’m not sure why, cause you gave only few details…
but having a little boy in family is hard as you probably know XD
Maybe you two just don’t spend enough time together
alone. just you and him. and that’s why he’s quite cold…
Besides, you two need to do things beside being parents…
Like… ask him if he’d like to go with his friends somewhere… just
he by himself! maybe he feels like he’s trapped…
you should do the same sometimes. it’s not impossible to have life
while raising a child.
and of course… talk to him… be calm.. ask him!
but don’t ask "What’s wrong with you?" and something like…
"What do you feel you need the most? what’s missing? what do you
need to feel better?"… talk to him nicely. and good luck!