Now My Ex Wants Me Back?
Now My ex wants me back, I don’t know what to do?
Ok so a couple weeks ago I broke up w/ my ex bc i caught her talk to her ex boyfriend multiple time and not just “hey how are you’ but things like I love you, I miss you, one time she even told him that she was single.
And she talk to other guys just bc she likes the attention, she admitted that.
I just grew so tired of it, it was so wrong and unfair. She says its all because her first boyfriend messed her head up so bad so now she craves attention from guys because he never gave her any.
But after a couple of time of pouring my heart out and tellin her how much that she hurt me by sayin those things to her ex boyfriend, she continued to do it so I had to break it off.
When I first broke it off I knew that would be only way for her to realize things and that I hoped she would change and we could work it out. Of course I was down and missed her like crazy, but after a little while I felt better and like I was ready to just move on.
Now the last few days shes been callin alot and we hung out a couple time (no kissing or anything though,just talked and chilled) and she says how upset shes been and she doesnt wanna loose me and that she’ll change her ways.
I just dont know what to do she seems so sincere but still. I’m really stuck, sometimes I think just go and move on she wont change, then I think maybe she will change and im pushing away something good.
Like I said we start communicating more again and even hung out. I went over her house the last two nights, but I left and went home. I normally slept there everynight. She gets upset because things are wierd and I wont even kiss her and stuff.
I want to so bad but I know that not a good idea.
She says she knows she has some issues and is scheduel to go see a pychiatrist (prob wrong spelling).
Since breakin it off was the last option, just don’t know if I should give it one last chance to see it worked to change her.
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keep it at this pace, tell her you would be willing to sit in on a counseling session if she or her doctor felt it was necessary.
There could be some issues in her past shes not comfortable dealing with, let alone telling you. It more than likely isnt her fault, but again that depends on what it is she went through.
Give it a chance, at least you tried…..
save this high school drama for your mama
dont do it unless your after a shagg
i think you can try it out again, but this time take it slow. mostly just be friends for awhile, until you are very sure she has changed. i mean she says she has but have you seen it. has she showed you. just be there as a friend. take it slow see how things go.
If she is serious about seeing a psychiatrist, I would give her another chance. But it’s going to be a long process, one or two visits aren’t going to change anything. If she doesn’t follow through walk away and don’t look back, bc she will never change.
Isn’t that sort of what she told the other guys, too?
Personally, I would never leave someone in order to get them to change. I would only leave them because it is over. Remember why you left her. She has problems and has played out this scenario many times.
I think you were making progress toward putting your life back together. I think you should try it again, because you can make it. She isn’t doing you any favors by insinuating herself back into your life. You deserve better.