Brokeup now Ex wants me back, what should i do?
Ok so a couple weeks ago i broke up w/ my ex bc i caught her talk to her ex boyfriend multiple time and not just "hey how are you’ but things like i love you, i miss you, one time she even told him that she was single. and she talk to other guys just bc she likes the attention, she admitted that. i just grew so tired of it, it was so wrong and unfair. she says its all bc her first bf messed her head up so bad so now she craves attention from guys bc he never gave her any. But after a couple of time of pouring my heart out and tellin her how much that she hurt me by sayin those things to her ex bf, she continued to do it so i had to break it off.
when i first broke it off i knew that would be only way for her to realize things and that i hoped she would change and we could work it out. of course i was down and missed her like crazy. but after a little while i felt better and like i was ready to just move on. Now the last few days shes been callin alot and we hung out a couple time (no kissing or anything though,just talked and chilled) and she says how upset shes been and she doesnt wanna loose me and that she’ll change her ways.
I just dont know what to do she seems so sincere but still. im really stuck. sometimes i think just go and move on she wont change. then i think maybe she will change and im pushing away something good. like i said we start communicating more again and even hung out. I went over her house the last two nights, but i left and went home. i normally slept there everynight. she gets upset bc of course things are wierd and i wont even kiss her and stuff. i want to so bad but i know that not a good idea.
she says she knows she has some issues and is scheduel to go see a pychiatrist (prob wrong spelling). since breakin it off was the last option, just dunno if i should give it one last chance to see it worked to change her
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wait and see if she is really sincere about getting some help for herself.
I wouldn’t.
She doesn’t respect you, and by taking her back, your not respecting yourself. Go ahead and respect yourself and keep an ex where they belong, an ex.
You pig you. who are you to tell anyone not to talk to another human being? You just want to control her. You are so insecure within yourself that you think making her stop talking to guys will fix it. That is a childlike thought to begin with. You are a controlling jerk that has got her thinking she needs phyciatric help. How dare you!!!!!!!!!
gonna keep posting this same dumb question over and over until you get the answer you want or something?
So you pouring your heart out to him while you were together was not a good enough reason for her to change, but NOW she wants to change. Could it be that some of her ‘other’ ex boyfriends have gotten sick of her attention tactics and have quit returning her calls (or blocked them). Don’t go back with this girl UNTIL she has her head on straight, has changed and looses all the psycho babble that she fed you about her ex ‘not giving her enough attention’ thus she craves attention from other men while in a relationship . . . it’s called plain old cheating! Don’t take the broken model, tell her to get fixed first and then proceed with caution. Be her friend first to see if she really has changed.
You sound like a good guy, you poor bugger!
It sounds as if her problems started earlier than the first boyfriend who messed her around. Often women will choose guys like this because of family issues (dad’s who weren’t there emotionally or were abusive), they are replacing their dad with someone similar, then they meet a guy like you and know that they can have a good relationship but find it hard and tend to sabotage it.
It’s great that she’s going to talk to someone, but encourage her not to give up if the first help she gets doesn’t work, sometimes it takes years to deal with problems like these.
Stick by her if she’s prepared to do the work on herself. If not, take care of yourself. Good luck
i think dat u would be better off without her i dnt think it was right to do that while she was going out wit u nways dats my opinion so u really dnt have 2 listen 2 me hey its ur life u choose wat 2 do wit itgood luck!!!!!!!!!!
You miss her like crazy but is it worth going through what you went through before with her.If you really want to be with her, let her go to counseling for a good 6 months.( will she really go to counseling ? y Remain friends with her but don’t become involved with her. See if she changes at all. You should see if there is any change in her in the 6 months. Is she flirting with other guys , etc? Can you handle just being her friend for 6months to see if there are changes? Seems like she needs more attention from other guys then just you to make her feel good. Good Luck and move on if you have any doubts at all and if you and her can’t wait those 6 months.