My Hus is living w/my bff x 30 days now. Am I wrong to want him back, any suggestions?
He just announced suddenly wthat he was going to move in with my best friend one day as I came home from work. I am devasted, but going to counseling to work on ME–as I am heartbroken. I do want to try to put this marriage back together. I know her VERY well & also know she moved in w/multiple men in the past (Just didn’t think it would be MY hus) & she is very impulsive. I think they are feeling the flush of infatuation & we were feeling the burdens of poor communication & poor attention to each other. He is also almost 50 yrs old–poss mid-life crisis?? HELP!!!!
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Just because she may have been with other men, she may settle down with yours completely. I know it sucks. But, don’t count on it just being fleeting. And don’t count on him coming back.
I hate when men do leave their wives, they actually sit home and wait for the bastard to come back. There is no excuse good enough for what he has done. So, continue to get help to build up your self-esteem. Stop obsessing about what you think they are doing or how long you think it will last. Focus on getting on with your own life.
u want him back?
it’s good to forgive but this?would you be able to do things as a wife with him again? I mean after he has gone on you? That just makes someone like me sick.
I think it’s good that you’re getting counseling–it will help you see why you surround yourself with people who betray you and it will help you with your self-esteem. You can do better than both of these two and they deserve each other. All the best!
Get yourself straight first before dealing with him (counseling is good), but, DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK! If he would do this with a best friend of yours HE WILL DO IT WITH ANYONE!
Move on, maybe after you are ready you will find a man that respects you and treats you like you need to be treated!
Good Luck!