How do I win my ex boyfriend back?
Me & My boyfriend been going out for 7 years. WE broke up he was still dating me 2 and things were going ok I had a chance of getting him back but 2 weeks ago I did something so stupid I got into his email account sent this other girl he is dating a nasty email telling her to leave me alone on his behalf. Now he is really mad at me said this girl will be his new girlfriend anyone think I have a chance of getting him back now when him and this girl break up? I am so heart broken. I cant move on. I love him with all my heart. I just didnt want him to be with this girl they are not right for each other. Please help!! He still loves me and he said he still misses me and after 7 years do you really think it can be over? Do you think it could work out being friends for a while and showing my postive changes with the reasons why we broke up? Every one saids give him space but I have done this and after a week still no phone calls from him. What should I do?
How can you forget someone after 7 years? He said this was a really bad thing to do but I did it to save him from getting hurt by this woman and too if he understood how I felt about him he would understand why I did what I did. He kept telling me we would get back together now I am left with not knowing if we will ever get back together. What do you think? I keep trying to add more details but I am at work and my phone keeps ringing I can send you more information if you want to email me. Thanks.
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If I were that guy, I would probably not want to go out with a girl who did what you did, but that doesn’t mean that it would never happen. You should tell him in person (I never cared for the whole on the phone/internet scene) that if there was anyway to take back what you did, you would do it. Tell him that he is your only man in your life (something like this if it is how you truely feel)
He seems to have a lot of control over you and I wonder why that is. Why would you want to wait for him ’til he breaks up with his new girlfriend? He seems to be so sure that he can do anything he wants or see anyone he wants because he knows he can have you back anytime. There doesn’t seem to be any fairness here.
I can advise you … but would you listen … I don’t think so.
You are desperate to get him back but you need to have some pride and not let him see your desperation.
Try real hard to keep yourself busy; get a hobby, get out with some friends … don’t allow him to know your at home pining over him. Let him think just the opposite. If he calls, don’t take the call or just hang up on him. If you happen to run into him, wear a cheerful face. It’s time you made him do the wondering … "will she take me back" ? In other words play his game; play hard to get. Keep this up. If he truly loves you he’ll come begging to take him back.
Do you have the spine to demand equality in a relationship? It’s all up to you, hun.
Keep asking for his forgiveness. You said he still loves you, that anger will fade someday. Just don’t disappear from his life forever.
I would ask him what he would had done if he was in that situation. How would he feel about you and other men. Would he had sent the same message?
I think you need to leave it alone for a while. If he wanted to get back with you. He wouldn’t be seeing both of you at the same time. 7 years is a long time to be with someone & of course he will never forget about you. What you did was wrong but all you need to do is apologize. I know that you love him but he needs to love you the same way you love him. In all honesty. He may have just been playing the field. Knowing the other girl wasn’t right but that you’d always be there. You need to get yourself together & find something else to focus on & stop waiting by the phone for him to call. He may have made you feel that you had a chance to get him back but people make mistakes & if he really loved & wanted you, even if you did that, he would have listened & forgave you & worked things out..Not said..This other girl will now be my new girlfriend. You need to let time heal & maybe later down the line when he grows & you grow you two will come back together. ..But personally I feel like he was having fun with both of you. Find some other hobby to focus on & work on you. Forgive yourself..You do foolish things when in love…So what..you did it..it’s done..now you have to move forward.
I think it can be resolved but you are going to need to prove yourself. Provided this was a one time invasion of his privacy, but if this is something that has happened again and again over the coarse of the 7 years. He may by this point be realizing that, that kind of behavior is not healthy for a relationship. He may be tired of it. If this was the first time then I think you may have a shot at getting him back because he knows that it is out of character for you. If he will listen to you let him know that you were scared. you didn’t want to loose him. But now you realize it was wrong, your sorry and it will never happen again, and mean it!! also tell him you realize that wheather or not you are a couple doesn’t matter at this point as long as he is apart of your life. You only want him to be happy and that if that means giving him up then that is what you will do. once again, mean it!!! Once you set him free, he will begin to realize how much you truely love him. Then give him time and space I beleive you will be very glad you did.
That’s quite a sticky situation you have gotten yourself into. Everyone makes mistakes…but if you ask me…you did the right thing, you were trying to protect his heart even though you knew it’d break yours. I think that he needs to see that anyone who can give up their happiness for the happiness of another is someone who should not be shunned…but someone to be proud of. How many other people would have gone and done what you did in order to protect someone else? I think that if he is given the chance to see what you saw in her…that maybe he’d realize that what HE did was the mistake, and that you were right to try and protect him from it. I say that you need to gather more information to justify yourself and your actions. if you can back it up, there is a bigger chance that he’ll realize what was actually going on. He’ll realize that what you did was out of love, not spite. Be aware though, that by doing that, you could potentially hurt him…but isn’t better that he knows that you care at least enough to tell him his mistake rather than to have him living with someone who isn’t right for him?
You’ll forget, life goes on.
hes probably tired from doing you the last 7 years….. think of a way to win him back sexualy