Ok well I recently got out of the army I met my wife there. I was in 5 yrs we both disliked the army. we got pregnant and a week and a half later i deployed for a year. She deployed also 4 months later. Well she then left before me. So she was away from our daughter for 5 months. I saw my daughter 1 month 3 weeks out of the first year she was born. i got home in august. —– Then everything was fine I thought, Let me first say this i love her. I love her so much My KIDS & MY WIFE mean more to me than life its self. We talked about having another child and i said i didn’t want another child until finacially we were able too. But she took as me saying i never wanted another child from her. And then she thought she was losing me, the hole time i was thinking we were deeply in love with each other never knew she thought she was losing me. Well we also talked about the next deployment and i didn’t want one of us togo. Because our oldest was going to be 2 when we left and i didn’t want both of us to leave her at the same time. Well we decided that she gets out for a pregnancy………WHAT??????? ———–Thats right after she got back from the deployment she stopped taking her birth control but told me she was taking it. So like I was saying she lied to me and got pregnant to keep from losing me. But I she still kept tellin me she took her birth control. So I believed her well she got out right around her 7 or 8 th month so she went straight to stay with her family so they could help her with the kids. I was deploying right before her delivery date and the doctor said she shouldn’t be traveling in her 8 th month so she left right away. Well this time i deployed for 15 months this time and i wasn’t there for her berth (beyond my control), but i got there that night and they were both soooo beautiful. I missed them so much i was there 2 weeks. I was dreding the deployment well I deployed right after i got back. When I returned I saw my youngest about 31/2 weeks of her life. Well we decided to move to where i was from because i had some land there we put a place on it and i got out of the army. We moved here well when i got home some old girl i new contacted me I havent seen this girl in 12 years but she and i started talking just friends well she started texting me some stuff and i didn’t stop it. But I never not once thought about cheating on my wife. Well I never delete my texts ever and she found them so she automaticly thought i had slept with her then when i told her i never did and never wanted to she said i cheated on her mentally. I apolligized and said that i knew i would have to earn her trust back. Well less then a month after that stuff happened. And after she said she would try and work it out she leaves with our kids(VERY FAR AWAY). And she never tried and now I found out she has someone back were she took the kids. I know she has been seeing this guy a few days after they got there. He tells her he loves her and she has said it to him on something like face book or myspace. I have seen it but I know we can work out our marriage. But she won’t talk to me about saving our marriage. ——— BUT I WANT TO KNOW CAN I GET PRIMARY COSTUDY IF IM IN THE MILITARY? and if i do deploy the kids would stay with there mother. —- PLEASE SOMEONE GIVE ME ADVICE ——


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