How to make a girl fall in love with you again?
My ex gf used to be head over heels for me but I really really messed up. She used to love me like a crazy but after I messed up, the feelings went away. She says she still loves me but it’s different now you know? The spark and the passion is gone, it’s like a friend love now. We discussed it over and decided to break up for now. This happened last Thursday.
She said she doesn’t want to lose me and she still wants me in her life, so we decided to be friends. Kinda like best friends. We were great friends before we started dating until I fell in love with her and made her mine. She said she is not moving on just yet and wants to see where this friendship goes. She has interest in getting back with me, but like me, she wants that old love and passion back. I always have been sweet to her so sweet talk is not working =/ How can I make her fall in love with me again, and make me her love me like she used to?
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I am in that same situation, except with my ex boyfriend. We are like family together, and we still hangout, and be so called friends, but yet we are not back together despite that we still love each other. Sometimes I think that just means they want to be single, and have you on the side as well while they figure out what they want in their life. They know you will always be there, so they can do whatever they want while you are hanging by a strand.
In my opinion, cut yourself loose, and give her the silence treatment, and make her think you’ve found someone else, but not really actually admit to it. Which means, when she calls, dont call her back, when she ask you a favor, don’t do it, and when she wants to hangout, say you have plans, and basically just let her think you have someone else. But gradually do this, don’t just be a cold hearted person over night, but take things away little by little. Sometimes if it’s meant to be yours, you won’t loose it even when you let it go, so….your best shot right now is to just let her go slowly, but don’t let her know you are doing this to get her back. She needs to realize that if she wants to be with you, she’s going to have to make her mind up, if you choose to be on the friend sideline, you will be there foreva, so don’t stand there, just walk away, become a stranger and give her time to think and miss you and realize that she could be with you, and have everything you are willing to give her, if only she just get back with you.
You can’t do anything now. Once your in the friend zone it’s hard to get out. Just be friends and take what you done wrong as a good thing so that you don’t do it again.
give it time and see what happens. Try a new type of romance—did you give her flowers—new type of dating experiences–new places. Act as if you just me all over again
Like the other guy said just give it some time, be kind to her let her know how you feel about her,
And if you did mess up like you said, tell her that it won’t happen again.
just be a good friend and maybe her love will return again in time.