Recovering from relationship fight?
My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year now. Well last month was our first real big fight. I would get mad b/c she started to distant herself from me it seemed like. But that was in my view and in reality i was just so used to what the first few months were like. We just got too "comfortable" with each other. She also started texting this other guy an insane amount and I kinda confronted her and she got mad saying they were just friends. I know I should’ve overlooked it but it was hard. So eventually we were just mad at each other every day, and she decided we needed a "break" I was pissed because I have never heard of such a thing, and see it working. Well it made me realize that I was stupid about those little things and eventually we got back together a week later. Hardest week since a long time btw. So now today, recovering kind of. When I text her i get one word answers all the time, she doesn’t text me first. I did confront her and she gave me an i don’t know why. Although she texts the other guy perfectly fine, they even tell each other good night since they talk till bed time. I don’t really get those conversations anymore and hmm when I say good night or good morning…she only says Night or Morning, about every time. But she says goodnight to the other guy, she used to say goodnight to me and maybe saying darling but not anymore. Just one word answer "night". I talked to her tonight about it and she said I was reading too much into it and that she just likes using night instead. So now she used goodnight, what do i do. How do i got about recovering from this? I trust her that she only likes me, there is no question in that but just comparing the past to now and how she talks to other guys compared to her own boyfriend is just weird.
What should I do to improve it?
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get over it
I’m sorry to say, but it looks like your relationship may be coming to an end. Either that or somethings seriously bothering her. You should really sit down with her, and talk about it, don’t argue either.
Also, it’s perfectly normal to be jealous of the other guy. It does seem a little weird she spends all hours texting him, even well into the night. Trust me, if she keeps that up, she’ll fall for him and forget about you.
To be honest, I think you should end the relationship, spare yourself the humiliation and pain.