What should I do about my boyfriend/ex-boyfriend/fiancé?
I’m having a bit of a crisis here.
My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for about a year. We used to HATE each other because we broke up in a very nasty way. We went out for 6 solid months and we were each-other’s first real boyfriend and girlfriend.
*the break up*
My mom did not like him and forced me to break up with him and I was upset and sad for months. To get me back, he decides to go out with girls he knew I hated. It hurt me so badly to see him be affectionate to the girls I hated. He didn’t even like them, he just wanted me back. Instead of drawing me closer to him it pushed me away. I didn’t want anything to do with him.
*In between the year*
We talked rarely to each other and if we saw each other at school we would turn the other way. One day he goes out with this innocent, clueless little freshman. (He and I are both Juniors) and She doesn’t know how mean he can be. I warn her and say "I just want the best for you! I think you deserve better because he can be very mean sometimes and you are a sweet girl." Sweet girl my foot. She told him and he cursed me out and sent me nasty text messages for a week.
After they broke up a week later, he calls to apologize and leaves a very long message saying how sorry he was and how he was just hurt because he really cares for me. (Forgot to mention above, he goes to a different school now and we don’t really see each other that often.)
6 months later, he calls me again out of the blue. Says he thinks of me all the time and how things used to be when we went out. We talked for hours and we were back to the way things used to be. A few weeks later we are talking for hours and hours and he wants to get back together with me. I say yes because I really do care for him and he was my first love and I still have feelings for him. A few weeks later after seeing each other numerous times, he pops the question. "Kim, will you marry me?" I am speechless. I really don’t know what to say. I haven’t told him my answer yet and I just have no clue what to do.
My friends are against the idea of him and I completely. They hate him and they want him as far away as possible. My parents…they don’t know about "us" yet. They hate him too. Anyone who hurts me is evil to my friends and family.
I want and desperately need an opinion of what you think I should do. Thank you very much!
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Please don’t talk to him again. I don’t know what his problem is, but if your parents and friends all dislike him , there has to be a reason. That is a giant red flag. Tell him you are very flattered, but no thanks. And end contact with him.