I have found my first love from 17 yrs ago. We were young, both barely 18 then and he came to visit his uncle who stayed on my street in Ohio. We fell deeply in love but both planned to attend college soon in our home states and were afraid of moving because of no jobs or finances so we broken heartedly let things go. We found each other on Facebook and have been talking every since Oct. He still lives in Arkansaw and I am still in Ohio. Also I am still married to my husband of 10yrs. We have not been happy for the last 7yrs. Before I even got back in touch with my friend I have wanted out. Life has been filled with no intimacy or laughter in so long that I have almost forgotten how good it feels just to enjoy someones conversation. I do not want life to pass me by without experiencing true love and happiness. And I know my children are not benifiting from such a dry and lifeless marriage either. My lost love says that he is willing to wait and that he never stopped looking for me. He said that he will love my children as his own and is willing to do whatever it takes to have me in his life again. He tells me he loves me everyday. My husband doesn’t have a clue as usual. He just works and complains and in between watches a little television. Whether I move to be with this man or not, I know that I am not happy here. And I have tried to make it work but after 7yrs, I just can’t settle for what my husband is willing to give to the relationship. I don’t want to grow old with this man. Please offer some advice as to what I should do. I know what my heart is saying. My head is just so use to restricting myself and playing it safe because my husband has not cheated (that I know of), and I am not being abused. Please help me to take the leap…. or should I?


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