i’ve been asking for weeks, now i feel like i’m being held at bay. my wife and i separated about 3 1/2 months ago. at her insistence. she called me out on alcohol use/abuse. she was correct about that. but i’ve been 100 % sober since then, attending AA and individual counseling. there were other, extenuating circumstances. here’s the problem: we have spent a ton of time together since the separation. good time, fun, more fun than we had when we lived together. she has had what she calls "walls" up against me for awhile. i just see the time we have together as "second chance" time. i want this marriage, i feel like she does too. i saw a copy of "the love dare" book on her desk on the way out of her apt. night before last so i suspect she’s having some thoughts about saving the marriage. i hope so.

what is my next move? continue to work at building trust? make our time together enjoyable? what?

i know "ask her" will come up. i know that she will feel like her feelings are being challenged if i do that, so i’ve avoided that. what do you think i should do?


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