Things I’ve learned from women who’ve dumped me, has actually helped me save my current relationship. Why? Well, basically all partnerships are similar in that if you do not have some components that they will fail. It does not matter how good or how wealthy you are. Their relationship will fall apart.

If I had not been trained by my former boyfriends, I would not have learned some valuable lessons. For example, I would not know that I always tell the truth even when it makes you slightly uncomfortable. You see if you are always honest, so she will trust you. Confidence is a very large part of a successful partnership.

I would not know that I have to talk about how I feel. OK, I’m not a saint. I dislike most women in that I still do not feel comfortable chatting for hours about my feelings. But I know I have to explain how I feel and not just expect her to guess. I also have to ask her how she feels about certain things and listen to her answers. My job is not to fix her life and it will wind her up if I try. My job is to be there to listen and act as a sparring partner, and only offer a solution if I have been asked.

Other things I learned from the women who has dumped me, is that If I clean up surrounding the house, I win brownies points which can exchanged for sexual favors a later date. I also realized that sending a flower a day in seven days is more romantic than a bunch of red roses. To her breakfast in bed or have dinner on the table when she gets home from work telling her that I love her more than me just say it.

I have also learned that just because she cuddles up to me when we are in bed does not mean that she wants to make love. Sometimes she just wants a cuddle and I have to respect it and not insulted. I also realized that I can not just think she is sexier than Beyonce. I need to tell her and not only when I want more than one pet!

It’s funny how often the previous relationship I was in broke up for similar reasons. I thought I did everything right, but I always got dumped for ignoring my friends or trying not to understand them. I would have continued to be a failure on the situation if I had not invested in a couple of books and courses to help me understand what makes a good collaboration.

Now I could not be happier and so also is my wife. Things I’ve learned from women who have dumped me helped me – how can they help you?


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