How do I approach first meeting with ex girlfriend after breakup? I want to try and get her back.?
My ex girlfriend broke up with me about a week ago. During the week we both mutually decided to meet up tomorrow and talk about what went wrong in the relationship and what actually caused the breakup. I really want her back. I still love her and care about her and don’t want to mess things up in our first meeting. Should I tell her tomorrow that I want her back and want to work things out, or should I give her more time?
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Don’t read too much into it. Just because she is willing to meet with you does not mean that she is willing to get back together. First, try things from a different approach. Instead of telling her that you want her back, ask her what went wrong and what can be done to correct things. Women are different than guys. Being flexible (asking how to correct a problem) will be more receptive than being forceful (telling her what you want). It will also show that you are willing to be a partner in a relationship instead of wanting things to be the way you want them to be.
Relationships are hard work and require compromise on the part of everyone involved in the relationship. It doesn’t matter if it is a girlfriend, friend from school, or a family member.
Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.
Here are some steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting her back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Remember don’t be jealous and be flexible.
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Its very important to show her you are independent. Being a needy guy is one of the most unattractive things.
If she wants to work things out that is great, but let her take the first initiative.
What ever she decides you need to tell her that you agree.
This is an important thing if you want to get her back.
The answer to a better success in your relationship might in lie being independent and together at the same time.
Never stand in the way of a woman and her freedom. She’d rather be alone and free than chained together.
Are you boring? never be boring, always be out going. Women seek fun and adventure. Do things out of the box, women love surprises.
Are you taking responsibility? a guy needs to take part in all the decisions, and preferably make them. But always read the answer in her body language.
If the meet-up go bad
Andy,
The fact that your girlfriend want to and is willing to meet up with you to discuss the relationship is a great sign for you. It means that she too, isn’t quite willing to just walk away from the relationship just yet.
When you get together, it’s important that the two of you discuss what went wrong – what changed in the relationship from when you were both happier. Figure that out and you can make changes to get back to what is really important to both of you.
I would not tell her at this first meeting that you want to get back together with her. You don’t want to put any undo pressure on a very fragile relationship relationship. Tell your ex girlfriend that you value her friendship, but that there are "issues" that you both need to work on. It takes two to make a relationship and two to break one.
Communication will be the key – you need to listen and read in between the lines to what your ex girlfriend is saying. Show tenderness – but not weakness.
Hope this helps!