How likely is it that your ex would back off from contacting you if he really wants you back?
How do you know if your ex is just playing games with your head or he really realizes he made a mistake. My ex called me several days ago after I had not contacted him for several wks. because he had told me it was over & to move on-he was seeing a married woman after we split but, not sure whats going on with that. He called to tell me he would continue paying my car insur. & then came over & kissed me. I remained cool because I wasn’t sure what he was up to.Then he calls again three days later to ask me if he had left something here (he still has personal belongings here he never picked up) & then told me once again he would be coming the next day to get the rest of his stuff. I didn’t say anything other than ok. Wasn’t sure if he was looking for a reaction but, he never did come.I do love him & want him back but, now I have not heard from him again in 5 days. Should I have said something more- I don’t want to put myself out there again to get hurt. Not sure what to do-please help.
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My ex-husband cheated on me with a married woman and I kicked him out after I found out. He had treated me coldly for a couple of years prior to my founding out and had made my life miserable. He thought that she would leave her husband now that he was ‘free’. She didn’t. About 3 months later he started showing up at my home to borrow this and that. Finally I asked him not to come anymore, to ‘borrow’ stuff from his girlfriend. He broke that bond of trust and I could never have trusted him again and couldn’t imagine living the rest of my life wondering, who was calling, why is he late from work, why is he dressed up, where is he going etc. I lived it and it was miserable. I since remarried and found a wonderful man who has made me happier than I have ever been in my life. Tonight we are having a candlenight dinner, just because. Find someone who appreciates you and don’t waste your time with someone whose plans didn’t work out, so he thinks, let me go back to good ole fool. You’ll find that men just want to hop from one nest to another. They don’t go out and rent an apartment and furnish it etc. Too much work, so they would rather move in with someone who already has all this. You dig? This is just food for thought. Good luck.
he might regret it, but if he had, he should have come right out and said so. that’s usually what they do.
that married woman might have dumped him so he’s looking to get back with you.
but i’d be careful, what’s going to stop him from doing the same thing again?
at the point your at with him now, doesn’t sound like he’s acknowledging any blame.
and it’s probably flattering to him to think he can get you back without having to do anything to prove his loyalty.
don’t make it so easy for him. whatever you decide to do.
Relationships are hard enough when both people are crazy about each other and are 100% sure in their commitment. Why would you settle for someone who doesn’t 100% want to be with you?
You are worth much more than that.
It sounds like he’s making sure it works out with someone else first and if it doesn’t – sorry sweetie, you’re his back-up plan.
its a game to him by the sounds of things he just wants to keep you on simmer , be careful he may expect a booty call, then you would hear nothing again be very careful stand your ground you have to be strong and protect yourself good luck
i have no clue my ex is exactly the same
From one broken heart to another I have learn the hard way that if he really loves he would never of done what he did no excuses girl ,on top of it all would not of left you. You still don’t know if he is seeing that married woman and girl do you always want to wonder? Trust is very hard to build back, don’t let him string you along find someone that appreciates you for who you are, just pay your car ins. The reason you haven’t heard from him is he is to busy doing his own thing. If you get the time pick up the book He is just ot that into you By:Greg Behrendt I read it like six times and have still screwed it up. Letting someone go that you love can be the hardest thing to do, so girl pack up his belongings in a box call him and tel him to pick them up. How long are you going to wait for this guy to commit to you? Picking up the pieces is never easy find yourself and who you are….Hope things get better for you.