Comments on: How to convince my fiance to get rid of/move on from his abusive ex-girlfriend? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/863/how-to-convince-my-fiance-to-get-rid-ofmove-on-from-his-abusive-ex-girlfriend/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: skeptical http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/863/how-to-convince-my-fiance-to-get-rid-ofmove-on-from-his-abusive-ex-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-488 skeptical Thu, 09 Jul 2009 14:32:29 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/863/how-to-convince-my-fiance-to-get-rid-ofmove-on-from-his-abusive-ex-girlfriend/#comment-488 His problem isn't about "forgiveness". A healthy man could very well decide to forgive her, and move on. The big problem is, he hasn't moved on. The minor problem is, he has not recognized that she is in NEED of forgiveness. He doesn't really know what forgiveness is. Here's what it's NOT: Pretending that no wrong has been done. From what you've said, it sounds like that's where he is. I suggest YOU move on. He's not over her. His problem isn’t about "forgiveness". A healthy man could very well decide to forgive her, and move on.

The big problem is, he hasn’t moved on.

The minor problem is, he has not recognized that she is in NEED of forgiveness. He doesn’t really know what forgiveness is. Here’s what it’s NOT: Pretending that no wrong has been done. From what you’ve said, it sounds like that’s where he is.

I suggest YOU move on. He’s not over her.

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