How do you think is the best way (scripture would help!) to get over man who left me for a model?
I know I am to blame too, I was intimate with him which I really repent for, please understand I am really sorry and want to heal. I think he used me to just keep me around for a while talking about marriage and such and used me for intimacy and money. I don’t know but I do know he is showing much more feeling for this girl he saw while we broken up, but didn’t tell me when we got back together that they were still friends and he has strong feelings for her. We started being intimate again, I thought he was just waiting to be commited to me until we get over some things, but on Monday he wrote a lot of posts with feelings behind them about a girl leaving a guy she is with to live a happy life with the one who will treat her right. She is a model, and I am not, I feel I gave so much love and care to this man, I gave him my unconditional love and money and time and feelings and energy and prayers and he has all these feelings for this girl who is with another guy he thinks she should leave for him. How do I get over being left, is it because she is a model? I am so strong in my faith and love in Jesus and GOD and I prayed for us and God’s will to be done and this man I feel was just keeping me around until she decided to be with him. I might be wrong, but I really see it this way and need to know how to go on the best way. Thank you.
I did think God put me in his life to help strengthen his faith that he has but said he wants God in his life more, but he is thinking God put him in her life to get her out of abusive relationships but he has been being intimate with me and talking to marriage with me while keeping her as a friend and having feelings and asking her to be with him while not telling each of us about eachother. I found this out by contacting her for truth since he posted a bunch of stuff about wanting a girl leaving a guy to be happy with someone else and I knew it wasn’t about me. He won’t even admit the post is about her, and she says she doesn’t want to be with him even though she poses in bikini to let him take pictures of her. I am confused and he won’t admit the truth and he says he cut her out of his life and says it’s because when he tries to get close I do things to push him away which I have been working on but now I just think he loves her and is using me because she is a model and I am not
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You need to detach and not dwell on it. There are so many potential harmonious partners out there for you to have a happy relationship with. Every person has unique abilities and qualities and is like a beautiful flower…you cant compare them!!! You dont have to be the most beautiful or the smartest…just be the best you can be and you will shine brightly next to anyone!!! Give yourself lots of self love and go do everything you love in life.
I do not think it was because you are not pretty! If that is you- you ARE pretty "enough for ALL practical purposes" (that was a line from an old movie) Yes, you are pretty.
When we sleep with a man- we have crossed the line to "playing married". Without the commitment. The relationship is skewed. You have given everything there is to give!
AND… NEVER GIVE MONEY TO A MAN. Gosh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
In MY day- the man had to move heaven and earth to woo and win ME. If you hold to this, even today, you will find the right sort of man. When a man is crazy over a woman- HE does all the courtship. You value yourself, you find a good man.
Have high standards! My goodness, back when, I wouldn’t even DATE a guy who wasn’t well-off enough to consider marrying! No- money can’t buy love, but a man who has some gumption and work ethic and brains and all won’t be a "slacker" or just drifting along.
You have to be able to have something to admire about a man, or why bother?
You have to learn the dance- you don’t just throw everything at a guys’ feet the moment one shows interest in you. You are to get to know them when "dating"- not go play married so soon.
Okay- I am very very sympathetic to you and your plight. Your heart is ripped open. It hurts. Realize it is not because you were not worthy or not pretty- the guy was just a jerk and did use you. He probably knew you and he were not compatible for marriage, but as you said- he didn’t admit it cause face it, guys will get free sex when they can if a gal lets them.
Just let him GO- he is a JERK. Not worth you. Take some time, and heal up. Time does heal all wounds. Take the dating scene slower now.
Beat him over the head with the bible. It’s both subtle and dynamic!
The scriptures will help you to realise that your faith in God is more important than that redundant relationship..
Hun, tell yourself that his lust does not impress you. Keep saying it.
It’s so hard to understand this thing we all fight… but if you can get in your head that Jesus wasn’t affected…. he wasn’t walking around horny all the time… you will know you can deal with it too.
melissa I have no idea how a scripture will help you but if you want to come over later tonight I’m sure that I can help.
There is no god and you know it.
Is that you in the avatar? I understand why.
You’re broken, that makes me sad.
It.s more likely that he left you because you are a nutcase
Come have sex with me to get even with him
Aren’t you one who said you have herpes and your boyfriend just found out? Maybe that has something to do with his leaving you. You post your picture on the internet with all this deeply personal information. Maybe God wants you to be a little introspective and stop seeking so much attention from complete strangers.