What can I do to get him to leave me alone?
Alright, so 2 nights ago I broke up with boyfriend of 2 and a half years. Obviously I still care for him and love him, but he was verbally abusive and he definitely took me for granted.I made it clear to him that I didn’t have any intention on staying with him.. and NOW he cares. The endless phone calls and texting, telling me how he wants me to take him back, and that he’s "changed." He has had endless chances with me, and he didn’t ever take my feelings into perspective until it was too late.
Yesterday, we met up because I had left my ipod at his house. He walked and talked with me, and he cried the whole time..I feel awful for hurting him but I can’t stand being in an unhappy relationship. I ended up changing my FB status to some alexisonfire lyrics, and as soon as he saw them, he texted me telling me he was glad I wanted him back.. also, he has threatened many times to take his own life if I don’t get back together with him. I called his house and informed his parents.. they said to continue doing so if he doesn’t stop. Also, we were supposed to go to prom together.. and now he wants to go as "friends," this sounds like a bad idea to me.. does anyone else think so too?
What can I do to make it clear that I don’t want to be with him, or be in a relationship for that matter,without driving him over the edge? Thanks in advance.
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I really understand exactly how you feel. He cares for you but doesn’t show it until it’s too late. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years also and he has done the same thing to me, every time he changes for a couple months, then goes back to just being an ass and acting like he doesn’t care. I know how hard it is though, I’m confused right now too. I hope it all works out for the best for you.
I would just say that right now you don’t want to be in a relationship and you have a lot to think about and to just not try to talk all the time. If you need someone to talk to, message me.
kick him in his crutch!
speak from your heart and be honest that’s the only thing you can do but don’t be hurtful
how about get back together. just say that if he actually wants you to be together then dont be abusive
tell him you cheated on him and you now have herpes
You might need to file for a restraining order. (you wouldn’t be the first by a long shot) and you should not have to deal with that kind of emotional blackmail.
Well, talk to him seriously about it. Not much else to do.
Just ignore him and avoid any situations that could bring you around him